Girls, are you more likely to play hard to get with a guy that you’re really interested in? Bonus question if so why?

[Intothevoid666]

I feel like women are much much quicker to go for guys they aren’t that attracted to compared to ones that they are really attracted to.

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

It may seem like it but honestly I'm just really shy with the men I really want. I feel again immature girls are the ones who play hard to get.
Now dont get confused with me holding out on sex as playing hard to get. It's just honestly the first time y'all have sex its awkward as hell unless there's already a bond. So I dont want to fuck shit up😉

[Intothevoid666]

For women who are 18-25 and are still immature is this true? Like I swear women make more of an effort to go after guys they don’t like than guys they actually like cuz they are secretly scared of rejection or something

[Opinion Owner]

Nah. I've seen the opposite more. Older women going for guys they dont want. It's difficult to describe. Like it's TRUE I'll admit that if you're past 30 and 5 kids most men won't want a woman like that so the woman settles for less because she slept around with the hot guys and they just used her. Now what you're saying are younger girls going after men they dont like... I've never seen this lol it's usually the men they arnt into they play with... mostly

[Intothevoid666]

This has just been my experience. And an important detail here is that I’m really attractive. But it’s like whenever women see that I’m actually interested in them they play hard to get yet will continually go in and out of relationships with guys that aren’t even attractive. Yet they still will flirt with me every time they see me and if I stop acting interested they will try to get my interest back it doesn’t make any sense to me. I don't know if I just have bad social skills or what it is. The girls who show the most interest in me are the girls who I show the least interest in. The only girls who don’t seem to do this are girls who are equally introverted as me which is very hard to find cuz I’m like far range introverted. Why does this happen?

[Intothevoid666]

I’m not sure tho if they think I just want to fuck them cuz I have a really really high sex drive and I’m socially awkward so I’m bad at hiding it and I think that might freak them out. Not that I’m like explicitly creepy or anything but if I act too interested I think that’s the assumption

[Opinion Owner]

🤔 my guess is... just because you're really attractive doesn't make women want to commit to you. Or even like you back. Again you're messing around with dumb immature girls. Maybe go for someone a little older than you and maybe even a little more experienced? I feel she will be a better match for you

[Opinion Owner]

I remember when I was your age the same shit would happen to me. Or like when a guy likes me back I'm not interested anymore. But I honestly grew out of that

[Intothevoid666]

I’m not interested in older women. I’ve never had a serious relationship and it would be a slap in the face to start my first serious one with a women who is older than me. If they’re older than 20 I’m really not into if u really want to know the truth I don’t mean to sound mean or anything to anyone when I say that but I just wouldn’t feel it and would rather be alone. And well it’s weird tho then cuz these girls def seem interested in me. My theory is that cuz I go for more whorish women who always tend to have at least some traits of borderline personality disorder their main thing is needing a relationship and women in general prioritize a relationship over sex. So if I act too interested they get this idea that my interest will always be there and if it’s not I must not have actually liked them cuz that’s how a lot of women think especially this type of woman. Cuz it doesn’t seem to matter really if I tell them that I actually want to date them and not just fuck them and telling them I just want to hookup doesn’t work either the only thing that works is playing the hard to get game for a prolonged period of time and then ignoring them or something like that I don't know.

[Intothevoid666]

Well then if every girl that age is just gonna do that I’m not ever having a serious relationship I guess fml lol. Sucks being super introverted too cuz casual is too much work maybe I’ll try the spinning plates thing I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

Sadely you're absolutely right. I can't even debate that as much as I'd want to. But you should give it a try tho dating a older woman just a little older. Like maybe a year or two is better than an 18 year old lol

[Intothevoid666]

It’s really not tho. They’re dramatically less sexually attractive and I’m just gonna be too jaded the whole time to actually build an attachment to them. And with no real emotional attachment and the women in porn just being younger and therefore more attractive I kinda think I’d rather just watch porn than have sex with them to be 100% honest

[Intothevoid666]

I think I should just accept they are undateable and not show interest and just fuck them lol the level of insanity this has come to is mind blowing

[Opinion Owner]

Oh sir. You best watch yourself LOL. Looks FADE sweetie. You'll be with the love of your life.. her starting with perky tities and you fall in love with her...30 years go by and her boobs are saggy. Again everything isn't and shouldn't be about looks because they do eventually fade remember that. But again there's nothing wrong with being a visual creature just dont be a prude about it cause you'll get disappointed

[Opinion Owner]

I feel you dude. Just take it one day at a time

[Intothevoid666]

Looks fade and what keeps sex fun is the emotional attachment if I don’t feel the emotional attachment then I can’t do anything to combat the fading looks ya know?

[Opinion Owner]

I get ya home boy. You'll find her I know you will.

[Intothevoid666]

Well thanks I sure hope so. Just don’t act interested I guess. We’ll try that

[Anonymous]

I am hard to get for a guy I don't want.