Why is she looking at me now?

[Anonymous]

Hi girls/guys,

Every morning I stop at a coffee shop before going to work and see this beautiful girl passing by on her way to the office.

She noticed me smile at her, trying to get her attention but obviously she does not seem interested at all.

Indeed, I recently spotted her shopping with her boyfriend.

As a result, I totally stopped staring at her so she does not feel uncomfortable because of me.

I can tell when she is passing by but do not lift my head up anymore now.

To my great surprise, she now stops at the same coffee shop as mine, sometimes with her boyfriend and even if I am not paying attention anymore, I catch her staring each time.

So girls/guys, what do you think of her behavior?

Thxx

[MoniqueTLC]

This is similar to the push/pull behaviour. While she saw that you would look at her, she knew there was some level of interest on your part.

However, now that you've stopped looking at her/acknowledging her there's the level of uncertainty where she's not sure whether you're still attracted to her, which funnily enough, will cause her to be more drawn to you because your value will have increased because you're now not so easily attainable.

Do you want to make contact with her?

[Asker]

Interesting... and no I do not want to make contact with her given she has a boyfriend already.

[iam_ss]

Unless she breaks up with her boyfriend and makes a move on you/opens herself up for a move from you, it’s nothing.

[Anonymous]

She might be interested in you, so make an attempt to chat her up.