Ghosted after she got a boyfreind?

[Anonymous]

I've been freinds with this girl for awhile bur when she got a boyfriend she ghosted saying he dosent like us being freinds and argues about it. So she stopped all contact. They recently broke up and now she's trying to reach back out. Told her If we can't be freinds if everytime she gets a boyfriend and goes silent. Am I in the wrong?

[jhl_x]

Honestly, this is something I'd do and actually did, but with girls I was interested in. It's happened several times, when I was trying to talk my way closer to her, with her actually accepting it, to then all of it shut down as soon as she gets some other boyfriend and goes silent.

If she's just a friend like you're saying, treat her like I treat my male friends, by talking once in a while just to catch up and then go silent again until the next time.

[Asker]

Granted your right I do have feelings for this girl that's why I can't do the on and off again. If she just wants to be freinds then great but this flat stuff I can't deal with

[Guy13]

I do not think so. Sounds like she expects to be entertained by some man at all times. And, if it can't be the one she really wants... then you will do. That's hard to deal with...

[In_Trance]

you're an idiot. move on

[Anonmehahaha]

You're right