I recently confessed my feeling to my crush and got rejected. She said she doesn’t know how to handle our relationship because she is afraid she has to put in too much effort into our relationship.
Before the love confession took place, we got along quite well and I could see signs that she is interested in our conversations. I believe I scared her off by sharing my list of criteria looking for soulmate during confession (yeah I’m stupidly honest). Only recently I got to know that she ended a toxic past relationship because of this reason. My intention was just to let her know that i finally found the girl I have been waiting for all this while. Unfortunately the way I expressed it caused misunderstanding.
She actually took some time to consider my love confession. Meaning, she left the response open-ended for weeks, neither she rejected nor accepted my love confession and we still communicated with each other until recently when I continued to flirt her, she got mad and blocked me on social media all of a sudden. I have to admit that I don’t know how to read signals from girls. After that only I got to know from her blog of the reason of rejection. All the dramas happened just because of lack of communications between us. I’m not sure if it is still wise to confront her or back off now. Appreciate your advice. Thank you very much.
