As a dumper, do you guys still stalk your ex Instagram stories?

[Mark7878]

She said I deserve better than her, because I did a mistake, I criticized her, she didn't accept it and she won't accept my apology, I have no idea why it became such a big deal to her, so I guess she dumped me and it's been more than one month, I decided to go no contact, yet she still stalks my stories everyday until now. I never watch her stories since she dumped me, because as a normal person, that would make me hurt more.

Other than curiosity, why she still stalks me? Does she want me to suffer? Does she punish me? I never post any desperate stories though, eventhough I am actually lol, I tried to move on and showed to the world that I'm fine. Did I do the right thing?

[bean2k21]

If you had trained her properly, you wouldn't need to criticize her, so yeah it's basically your fault. From day one, you need to make it clear what your likes and dislikes are so she can obey your wishes. Now grow up, and be a man, and learn how to start using positive reinforcement if you're so picky about your women.

[Mark7878]

Well I'm not picky though, I do miss her, and I want her. But is it my fault if I'm thinking that she doesn't love me like I love her, because she won't forgive me over small matter?

[Guy13]

No I do not especially coven no social media account

[Autember]

It's normal to want to check in with an ex. Especially if you broke up over something other than losing feelings.

She is not trying to punish you or make you suffer.

[Mark7878]

Are you sure? Well I guess normal people wouldn't check their ex's stories, since it would make them hurt more, like me as a dumpee, I decided not to looking at hers more.

[Autember]

I doubt she is even thinking about you looking at her looking at your stories lol

it's a personal choice if you don't want to see her stories but I don't think it means anything malicious by doing so herself.

[Avicenna]

Some do it, especially if they have Borderline Personality Disorder

[Anonymous]

Maybe after 1 year or 2, if a memory was triggered and we were close.

[Mark7878]

That's a healthy person do, maybe after 1 or 2 years down the road. But she stalked me right after she dumped me, until now. Now I consider that she's not healthy.

[Opinion Owner]

Then balls in your court let her come to you..😉

[Mark7878]

The balls in my court? I've apologized to her so many times man, sincerely, but she didn't respond to it, well my intentions are pure, I surrendered it to God then.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Nope, not on Instagram/Facebook, etc..

[Mark7878]

That's normal people do. I appreciate that.