Am I a Hopeless Cause? How can I stop my looks from affecting my life?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I'm just a failure at life, and can't do it anymore. My life at home is a mess and everyone has mental disorders I can't deal with. I have a job, pay my way, do what I'm supposed to do but it's still not good enough. I don't know how I am going to go on much longer. I'm not going to kill myself or anything like that but I completely shut down and just sleep for days straight. I find it hard to socialize because I am SO ugly! I have no boyfriend, no friends because I'm fat, weird and unnatractive. Is there any way I can feel better about myself? How can I get people to see past my looks should I wear a paper bag on my head?

[Sandeeppingping]

I swear I'm not judging and I'd advise my own sister or even mother with the same thing, we live in an age where whatever "looks" problems are literally all fixable if you put in the effort, just imagine if you lost the weight worked out and now have a sexy ass body, made sure your skin was nice, your teeth were white, your lips were full, would you still have this problem? I usually don't answer these questions because it's risky business people asking tend to get offended quickly, I hope I didn't offend you it wasn't at all my intentions, completely the opposite actually

[Anonymous]

Physical Attraction is part of the equation but it isn't the whole thing. The woman I l9ve of 5 years is drop dead gorgeous a complete knock out but she has a lot of other stuff going on for her as well she plays instruments she does bjj and mma
There are women I know supermodel women who I wouldn't give the time of day to because they're so narcissistic and vain and hung up on their looks they have no talent no skills nothing all those type of women are is eye candy very shallow and nothing else no substance

[Asker]

Thank you, I am a smart person and non shallow so that's good about me.