Girls, Is she showing signs of sexually into me or does she like me?

[Anonymous]

I’ve liked this girl for quite a long time and after awhile of being away from each other. I started to help at a place that she just so happens to work.

The other day, she was facing her manager at a picnic table. As I kept talking about having to leave she repositioned/turned herself to face me and let’s just say, she had her legs spread wide wide open. Like, not a normal looking sitting position tbh. And she also leaned back and fluffed up her hair lol. It just didn’t seem like a normal way for a girl to face a guy. Like I said she changed her whole body to face me. Just seemed like a very open position in front of a guy.

When we’re talking she rubs her lips, she’ll fluff or sometimes really slowly strokes her hair, laughs at 90% of the stuff we talk about - always smiling, she’ll rub her thighs a lot as well.

There was one time she kind of violated personal space, she reached over to help me find something on my paper and she got extremely close like her face was like practically smack in front of mine. Like if I moved an inch closer we could've kissed lol. It seemed very unnecessarily close on her part.

A few weeks ago we were sitting across from each other and she had pants without pockets. She seemed really fidgety always doing something or taking our and setting her phone down constantly or playing with her pen. She had pants on that didn’t have pockets so she’d put her phone in her waistband. She did it like 3-4 times and I swear on everything on this earth and future kids that the shirt got higher each time. I felt like she was trying to show me skin or her piercing. Her eyes also pop wide open/big smile when she sees me.

The catch is that she has a boyfriend….. but I had only heard about it when a coworker said something to her about him one day. And after that her whole mood absolutely dropped. It was like she got sad. Other than that she’s never brought him up to me. And I feel like if she wanted to she definitely could’ve by now.

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There has been numerous times that we’ve sat and talked for almost a full hour. I feel like if she had no interest then she wouldn’t be giving me this much time.

[7Phoenix7]

Well it seems like she's sexually attracted to you and all that. But the fact that she has a boyfriend and is behaving like that around you is questionable.

[Asker]

I’d be more concerned if we didn’t have a past. We’ve known each other since sophomore year of high school. (2016) and we used to be neighbors. And we hadn’t been around each other in a couple of years since graduation. So I think it was a shock for both of us when all of a sudden we’re back around each other. But in high school I could tell there was something there between us. If I never knew her a day in my life/we had never met and she was acting like this with her boyfriend. I will definitely be concerned. But again that’s the only reason I’m not is because we’ve known each other for a very long time and there is a chemistry even back then.

Sorry if I was rambling I hope that made sense lol

[7Phoenix7]

I understand what you're saying. But still be careful, imagine she had been your girlfriend and she came in contact with someone from her past and acted like that around them.