Why do so many girls have daddy issues and when do they get over it?

[Anonymous]

And when do they get over it?

[Anonymous]

I know this is going to make some women angry. But it's true regardless. Feminism has been like dynamite to men-women relationships. As a result we're a couple generations in now. And women who wanted relationships with men, but ONLY on thier terms have raised daughters and granddaughters with these toxic attitudes. These women simply DO NOT know how to bond to men anymore. Worst of all guys have raised by these women as well if they weren't f***ed up by the dating GAME. They were f***ed up by the toxic environment they were raised in.

Ask the avg. Woman on here and she'll tell you. They'd rather have a friends with benefits than a real relationship. This may alleviate her loneliness at times but it'll never give her longtime happiness. And with the banning of abortion gaining steam, I can tell you they ain't going to stop f***ing. Which means more illegitimate kinds born to a mother that doesn't really want them, and wouldn't know how to love them if she did. This creates more toxic kids for the future with no understanding of value or morality.

I'm afraid this is just going to get worse before it gets better.

[DawgthePawgSlayer]

Well In America, daddy is a dad and more like the older and larger brother you never had. If daddy is dad, then control of his daughter he never had. Because if he did so, he would have lead so as A Father that commands his daughter and chastises her wrongs so to right, both Father and daughter love each the more merry as loving protection is the most important aspect of this relationship to function well as being a positive one. Dads of today are too soft and allow their daughters to do whatever they want and so daughters of these dads will be the majority of social media daughters that hide their shame fornicating the game.

[Mamaganja]

Hmm. Well, I had the perfect childhood. My dad was everything to my sisters and I. Then, I started suffering from depression in my teens and made an attempt on my life. I was sent to a mental health facility and when they start reaching out to your family members so they can arrange for you to go home, I was stuck in that facility because my dad refused to let me move back in with him.


That was years ago. I talk to him now maybe once a year if that. I blamed him for a long time for my abandonment issues and issues with men. My first heartbreak was my dad withdrawing his love, protection and security from me for essentially being mentally ill. (My dad is my black parent. That side of my family does not acknowledge mental health)

[Bethany22]

Evolutionary speaking, it's to keep the population going. If women had stable relationships with their fathers (and who therefore married when they are young and married men their own age, and stay married in successful marriages), that would result in significant decreases in the chances that older men would have to still have sex with numerous women still in their childbearing years, meaning that if birth control didn't exist, the women could get pregnant.

[Gagname]

Interesting hypothesis…
So is this “women have daddy issues to help keep the human species alive” idea your conjecture or did you read this somewhere?

[Bethany22]

@Gagname I came up with the idea. It's a depression idea but i think it makes sense.

[Gagname]

Ok. Nice out of the box thinking.

[anon1903]

It's the men who failed us.

But good news is, not all girls with daddy issues date bad boys and older man. At least I don't. My dating history is short but sophisticated, I don't do alpha.

Imagine how important are abortion rights. Bad women becoming bad neglectful mother's, and bad men running out on them. And the child suffers one way or another.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Look at their home life. If dad was even there, was he a dirt bag? Did he leave and stranded her with her Mother? Was it a step-dad that loved dicking her down when she was 13?

It depends on the woman to get over it if they ever get over it at all.

[Anonymous]

they dont ever get over it. not really.

I saw a post on IG where the guy was explaining how he tells his kids that he loves them and makes his actions reflect this so they know its real, he explains, if they dont know what love feels like they will be conned by someone who tells them they love them just to get their own way, simple and makes sense but I guess stereotypically, men aren't encouraged to share such emotions in case it be viewed as a weakness by peers...

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Moms picking bad men mostly, men who are neglectful/absent , abusive, or just terrible fathers in many ways. Many are being raised in single parent homes these days.

[Anonymous]

Because so many are raised without a father.

https://www.womansday.com/relationships/family-friends/q-and-a/a56444/fatherless-daughters/

[CA4444]

HA what do you mean by daddy issues, well basically issue in parenting obviously, can take a few relationships to realize I guess

[lightbulb27]

so many absent dads and messed up families.

when they are forced to resolve past issues.

[Midgetmcwidget]

No idea, must be a few studies on the topic. Try a medical journal to answers.

[exitseven]

I dated two girls who had absentee fathers from an early age. Looking back they both did have daddy issues.

[SiberFox]

Because of their mothers.
I am ready for your hate.

[CA4444]

True, can definitely be the case

[Wise4myage]

This is quite common when fathers have abandoned their daughters, and some never get over it.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because they were raised by psycho single mothers and they never get over it.

[Anonymous]

Can you please give some examples of daddy's issue?

Literally I don't understand this term.

[Asker]

It is very strongly showing when they date much older men and claim it's because of their maturity (but it's obviously for their money).
Weak girls.
Girls, that let men use them and walk all over them.
Girls expecting boys to be their savior and do everything. Or being like their dad. Or very needy of protection.
Or calling us "daddy" in sex. Although I understand why they would say that and I am fine with that because i too have my kinks.

[Anonymous]

Because they are mentally children.

And they rarely get over it.

[Pot8o]

Doubt they ever get over it

[BlackElph]

there are a lot of bad fathers

[LogicBomber]

Most of those problems stem from bad single mothers and their poor choices.

[BlackElph]

@LogicBomber If the mother is keeping her child from the father she's a bad mother. If a father is a deadbeat he's a bad father. Stop trying to place the blame on women only. Hold men accountable too.

[Vegasrunner]

@BlackElph If that's true then why are kids raised by their fathers statistically more likely to be better contributors to society?

[LogicBomber]

@Vegasrunner Exactly. The problem with broken children is single mothers, not fathers.

[BlackElph]

@Vegasrunner men make more money than women in average. Statistically people raised with no power income will do worse than people raised with more money

[BlackElph]

@LogicBomber the problem in the question is why so many women have daddy issues. They have daddy issues because of there fathers. Other wise they'd have mommy come issues

[Vegasrunner]

@LogicBomber I dont know if it's one or the other, I'm open to looking at the evidence however from what I've seen is that single fathers have more success. Were currently in@the bizarro world where women dont have to be accountable for anything so blaming the father for their failures is a knee jerk reaction

[Vegasrunner]

@BlackElph Shouldn't that be all the more reason why children are better off w/ single dads vs single moms?

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

Lmao this is exactly what's wrong with our society @LogicBomber @Vegasrunner @BlackElph
I've been living long enough to know that a child is created by 2 people not 1. If a child has daddy issues it cannot be just 1 parents fault. So enough of this mommy vs daddy nonsense. @Vegasrunner can you even define daddy issue without researching it for the first time? You whole argument makes no sense. What doesn't contributing have to do with daddy issues? This whole convo box is just a battle of gender wars. As a Pseudo-Mod of GAG I will have all your accounts removed if these gender wars continue.

[BlackElph]

@BUTIMRIGHTTHO it's not a gender war. I'm telling them both are at fault 🙄 it's really not that deep. Never said men are the reason children are messed up. I said they are responsible too. And I'd a child has daddy issues more than likely the father did something tho cause those issues. Just like if a child has mommy issues the mother did something to cause those issues

[Vegasrunner]

@BUTIMRIGHTTHO Not even sure why you're involved in this conversation but your statement doesn't have any relevance to anything that has been presented. Are you just spewing something you feel for the sake of being heard because I haven't mentioned anything about daddy issues or lack of contributions for that matter. You haven't really brought any value to conversation but I hope you feel heard.

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

@Vegasrunner "If that's true then why are kids raised by their fathers statistically more likely to be better contributors to society?"(Vegasrunner)

Looks like what my job is done here. Both of you are concerned with me instead of arguing/debating with each other. #PseudoMod

[JustinTheGreat]

@LogicBomber Y’all need to blame women for everything 😭 How are you gonna sit here and blame single mothers for being single mothers instead of blaming the father who failed to step up and take responsibility for their own child.

[LogicBomber]

@JustinTheGreat Hahahahahaha bro Sit down.

[Vegasrunner]

@BUTIMRIGHTTHO I'm always concerned for random people who interrupt conversations solely for attention purposes. I hope you get the help you need.

[JustinTheGreat]

@LogicBomber I’m sitting

[Rockstarrrrr]

Because parenting is not for everybody...

[Anonymous]

Because so many men are shit parents

[Anonymous]

i don't really notice this much to be honest

[Anonymous]

Because so many men fail as fathers 🤷‍♂️