Is it bad that I do this whenever I get rejected?

[Anonymous]

I struggle with really low self esteem and rejection is something I really struggle with. I truly think it stems from childhood and feeling rejected. Then being mistreated by males emotionally

Is it bad that every time a guy rejects me I get a small cosmetic procedure to make myself feel better? Or if things don’t work out with a guy.. I just feel really upset and use that as a way to cope.

[Charlesbrandonf]

What is small cosmetic procedure if you don’t mind me giving more detail?

[Asker]

Like inexpensive face fillers or pumps. I don’t get rejected every week but if something hurts I will

[Charlesbrandonf]

No as long as they’re no harmful to you in any way or you don’t regret them. Do anything to keep yourself happy with in your way. Many people go out for walks, or read, or Spend time with their family or party after break up it’s where on individual feels safe or convenient. If you feel that is where you feel safe and convenient do it, I’d encourage not to do anything that you may regret or cause you any further emotional/physical/mental Damage than this rejection already caused you then yes.

Surely my love you’re not alone in this chapter. This chapter exists in everyone’s life. Honestly even in the hottest girl get rejected by a Rick guy. Or Rich guy is rejected by a hottest girl. It’s vice versa. Someone are just good at getting rejections so they overcome it and find another and one day they fuck everybody because by this time they give up on the lover once existed inside. I killed the lover inside me. Now I need a decent girl to share my life until then I’ll fuck any girl that gives me chance. Even if don’t find this decent girl I’m happy to get laid.

Initially I looked for intimacy during sex, I believed that’s the end goal. Later after I liked the lover inside me, I happen to enjoy what actually sex is, now I’m less sad. Now this sex is available everywhere. So this is where I am comfortable and this is what makes me happy and I feel good about existing.

So keep your chin up. Live life and after all this life is yours. Keep yourself happy is your responsibility

[Jamie05rhs]

What are face fillers? And what are pumps?

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs like what Kylie Jenner has lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. I wouldn't know what she has. I don't pay much attention to her.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's probably bad. Think about it: if your surgeon actually knew what they were doing, they would have done it right the first time. You wouldn't have to keep going back.

[Asker]

Lol no it’s just temporary

[Jamie05rhs]

What do you mean temporary?

[Asker]

They don’t last long

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't understand.

[LazerBean]

Yes.

[Asker]

Cool thnx