Why can't women admit that they dont like short guys?

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It's only on the İnternet, in real life, you hear from every women how much they Care about height

But on social media, they seek short guys validation , so they lie about it

And then they blame short men, as if women dont care

Just look at these...

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Women in general, NEVER like looking bad or admitting to guilt in public. EVER. That is like, one of the cardinal rules about women. If they'll look negative or be put in a position to be judged by others, they'll lie. You think Amber Heard is the exception to women and not the textbook rule? Nah...

Only sex workers seem to have the ability to take public criticism and scrutiny, but not the half-assed pseudo sex workers on OnlyFans; they want to be whores AND not criticized by it.

Accountability and admitting the reputation-damaging truth, will just be something that 90-95% of women will ALWAYS avoid. Even the ones who are total pieces of sh*t and think "they're just being honest" will find excuses to justify why they don't like short men. Like saying "you're too aggressive; you have a Napoleon Complex; you whine too much," etc. No one gives a sh*t. These are merely excuses.

Women will quite LITERALLY take ass-whoopings, verbal, and physical abuse, if a guy is tall enough. So trying to mock a guy who has been bullied his whole life for being short by excusing his inability to find love as "just his negative attitude" is the dumbest "dumb bitch sh*t" ever. Him being cool and calm and him being upset by his treatment of others, changes nothing in whether or not women will find him attractive or not at 5'2".

And dude... I have so many of my own stories about being sh*t-on for being too short, aka deemed "genetically inferior" by so many women. After a while, you get sick of that sh*t and decide to stop wasting your time with them.

I legit was about to ghost this awful woman. But then I gave her explanation why she can go to Hell.

You can literally do nothing about being under six feet tall (short). Just move on with your life and wake up from the illusion that love, companionship, happy relationships, etc., is a lie if you're not part of that top 20%. And the beauty is, you don't have to give a f*ck what dumb c*nts have to say about "being okay with little men, not with little bitches."

TL;DR: Give up with women. People in general suck, and they're typically the worse gender out of this trash species. Not to Blackpill you.

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

I've never heard any keep it a secret! I recall at least one specifically telling me that she thought short guys were creepy. This was about 30 years before EVERYTHING became creepy. There was a fairly short guy that had a thing for her and he knew where to put it but, she told me that she could never go with/for him because short guys creep her out. (He had a thing for James Dean so, she always called him, "Rebel without a clue"!) However, she wouldn't fuck me (I'm 6' 9"), either but, she said it was because she didn't want sex to ruin our friendship. Why sex would ruin our friendship, I don't know! Unless SHE has a thing where she won't stay friends with someone after she fucks them!! Except for my ex-fiance, I was still very good friends with the women I fucked after 30-some years!! So, fucking Jenn was CERTAINLY NOT gonna drive a wedge between us as far as I'M concerned!!

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

First I do not understand why this same general topic comes up like 5 times a day, but I am new here maybe it has always been like this.

Second to explain a little about me being here bc it might affect how my answer is taken, the reason I am here is so that I can talk anonymously about stuff I would not talk about in person or possibly with a very limited number of people in person, but here I will try to be honest since it is anonymous. Also for that reason I don't really want to become known here like, exchanging pics or visiting each other or meeting up or anything (I am not on the dating market).

So that said. Here is what I keep saying on this topic:

MOST girls or women will want a guy who is at least their height plus 4 or 5 inches, for a very simple reason, the tallest heels we wear are 4 or 5 inches, so a guy that height will still look good with us when we are wearing heels. I am not saying that is literally the only thought on our minds but it is the simplest one to explain.

Also some v. short girls may want to be in a relationship with a tall guy so their kids are likely to be taller, that is not a big deal to me (I am 5 foot 6) but it might explain why a girl who is say 5 foot 1 might still prefer a guy taller than 5 foot 6.

It is probably shallow and it is def. unfair but, it is not our fault what we like, we can't just decide to change what we like, there are so many factors in attraction that are not fair, this is just one of them. SORRY!!

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

Women have to experience beauty and age discrimination from men, if a man doesn't like how certain woman looks nobody can convince him to give that woman a chance etc. When men don't find a particular woman attractive, the response from them is usually "tough shit cookies" and we just have to deal with it. But for some reason a lot guys just can't seem to handle when they don't meet a woman's criteria.

It's like they want to be able to have any woman they want but never be on the recieving end of rejection. Listen we get it, rejection hurts but it's something both sexes have to deal with. I've been rejected many times before, it sucks but you just got to carry on and realize that person isn't for tough but someone else is.

Also I know plenty of dudes who are not interested in dating women taller than them. I even asked my some my younger male coworkers and they said no. I've also never really seen an average height male go after a women who are dwarfs or midgets, granted that's not usually the norm but I have seen those size women and men often don't gravitate to them. Would that not be considered height discrimination?

Anonymous · Answer

I personally like short guys. I'd gladly date a short guy if he was willing to date me. And I'm not trying to prove myself non-shallow, because I don't like old, fat, or bald guys. Shockingly, not all women are the same. Height mostly matters for bitchy normies, so of course you get more of those.

I could also say every guy on earth doesn't like fat women, and claim that they're lying if they say they do. Because the majority of guys don't. But I'm not gonna do that, because there are exceptions.

I hate that so many people are so fat. It's really not that hard to eat a healthy amount. It's only a pile of sugar and butter, you're still the one in power. People need to learn to control themselves. I understand that some people have physical conditions or feel that their life will never better regardless of weight, but not most of them. I'd still be way more willing to give a bald guy a chance if he was particularly nice to me than a fat guy. So there's proof that I do care about looks.

I also don't care much about face, as long as it isn't super scary. Just about as ugly as mine, maybe a little uglier. I'm probably a 3 or 4 on a bad day in face.

There's more to a way a person's brain works than just sex. Females and males do tend to be different, but there's also many other factors that shape a person's personality AND preferences. But, if heavy stereotyping and pretentiousness are what a stupid person is more comfortable with, there's not much I can do to convince them. It's pretty ridiculous that I still try to convince them anyway, especially since I'm not a very charming person. Probably because I don't know how to have pleasant interactions and get intimidated when people are nice to me, so it's the only thing resembling socialization I can get. Also because I refuse to privately journal.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

The ones that won't admit it or straight up lie and say they're fine with it are the reason everybody says to never take dating advice from a woman. Nothing makes me cringe harder than some 4'11" girl saying she'd date a guy that's short while her boyfriend is 6'5". It's like STFU you fucking liar.

The "my height or taller" girls are a little more realistic... but come on... you know they'd pick taller if it's an option.

It's a fucking virtue signal that achieves nothing but confusing us dudes.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

Bitch don't date shobs. I never been in asetheticly good shape never been tall still fuck. It happens but they be bitches anyway dude so y upset they save u time n trouble? I got dicked by a girl liked me n kept fuckin bringing up bad shit. Way worse get with bad person b4 they show colors. 🤙✌ anger makes u a better fuck nyway

Nah but they aren't so common. Only shallow 1s. U Dodge bullets better when ur not most attr active. 💜 woman people life better too. Online it filter by shit so much ^^

LazerBean · Answer

Okay, sure let's say women don't like short guys.

5\6 of my short guy friends (4 of them 5"4 and one 5"8) were able to find wives with no trouble by the time they were 23. The one that didn't has a glaring mental problem.

The women are okay with little MEN, we just aren't okay with little bitches.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

They do all the time he’ll 75% of the responses are usually I’m not dating shorter than what ever there height is.

I’m 5’2” and know it’s a preference and not a insult.
Although it is hard not to take it as such.
I’ve also been rejected specifically for my high in disrespectful ways including mockery. But this in no way dictates all women.
consider being short a secret weapon I’ll never have to date a shallow girl that doesn’t have a interest in my personality.
It’s ok to be honest with your self and say my dating pool is small but that means you just have to stop wasting time with someone that doesn’t respect you.
Move on with your life bro.

Anonymous · Answer

We have been conditioned to prefer taller men since we're kids, and men have been conditioned to prefer a shorter woman (not a short woman, but shorter than him). It's such a deep conditioning that most of us don't realize that these "preferences" are not really preferences, and we've been practically brainwashed to have them.

It's the same with body shape, only one body shape is celebrated and positively portrayed in ads, social media, movies, etc, so most of us are attracted to do that body shape. When your whole life you're told that certain physical traits are good and others are bad, it's very hard to have your own opinion, and you end up believing the bullshit.

MystiKaL · Answer

From what I've experienced in my years, many women openly admit they like tall guys. This is fine, as this is their personal preference. But it is also the same as a guy saying he will only date a slimmer woman. Both in my opinion are shallow views.

Steamnir · Answer

we dont care about height.

height won't feed you, start a stable family, take care of you and be loyal to you.

we care about personality, free from bs and issues and it has nothing to do with height, as toxic men can be tall or short

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

It's because we don't have to admit anything. We're not going to love the height only. These shallow physical standards are crazy. If women care about height you'd hardly see any short men who are married, just like Asian men.

Mamaganja · Answer

I’m 5’9. Most recent ex was 5’7.. it was only awkward during a specific argument we had and he tried raising his voice while looking up at me 😩😭

I have only ever dated taller prior to him. It’s not that I don’t like short guys.. I’m just tall and like to feel small, safe, and secure in a mans arms just like midget women do.

NalleBabyBoysss · Answer

I think they do admit it, the problem i always trying to figure out is (even if I'm not short) how it's okay for a woman to be open and say she wouldn't date a short guy but if a guy say's i wouldn't date a fat woman than he's an asshole? You can almost always change your weight but you can't change your height that's something your suck with so that never made sense to me.

SaoirseS · Answer

We aren’t going to admit to something that is not true.
This question has become troll fodder. For those that keep harping and whining about it, a pox on them. I hope the graves of their ancestors vanish in floods, that they grow warts on their genitals and that their taxes increase tenfold.

lightbulb27 · Answer

They can and they can't, they are women!

It's not the height, it's how you handle the challenge and you can see in whats written they failed. Stop letting women manipulate how you feel... that's the problem.

Some will flat out deny you, some are just stating how they feel, but their feelings change every 5 seconds...

19magic · Answer

If I picked the guys who I've had a crush on most are a similar height than me but all have been older than me. If I see a tall guy he still has to be cute for me to get the jitters, but I do admit I go a little wide eyed at the sight of a tall guy, but funnily enough every guy I've ever dated has been about the same height as me or in the range of 2" shorter or taller. Since the average guy is 5"9 in my country, I don't see anything wrong with that preference.

bingbongbangbung · Answer

No wonder the Afghan midget was ok with me having an asymmetrical face and crooked yellow teeth. I wasn't anorexic nor obese and I'm very tall for an East Asian. My teeth aren't as crooked as a redneck nor as yellow as a smoker, and I didn't have enough money then to get braces. I do now but inflation is a bitch and I need the extra money to make it through college.

Rangers · Answer

Some just don't want to hurt guys feelings and make them feel like there's no hope, good intentions, at least.

As they get older, small things like height matter less than other things that fortunately, we do have control over such as our weight, hobbies and career

Babygirl_S · Answer

I'm not attracted to short guys. I will only date someone 6 ft and taller. My ex was 6'1 and it was a turn-on to be with a guy much bigger than me. I am not ashamed of admitting that. There are men out there with strict racial preferences. At least my preference includes a wider variety of men.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Women that don't like short men make it clear that they don't like short men. However I feel as this has been overblown, for one guys have the most ridiculous standards of women so not sure what the big deal is if a women has hers. Secondly I've seen plenty of "short" men w/ women so not sure how valid this belief is.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

A man's height determines his dating pool. Over 94% of women reject men for being "too short."

EmmaMary · Answer

OK just for you... I Don't Like Short Guys... Happy Now? 😂😂😂

Haha456 · Answer

haha. why are you complaining about women not wanting short guys? men like you are always trying to go for a woman 10-15 years younger.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don't have a problem, with short guys if they have the same grace and confidence as tall guys. A lot of short guys compensate for being short by over inflating their pride and ego and that is ugly.

Agape93 · Answer

Why can't men just accept our answers instead of ignoring what we tell you

dustybiker · Answer

It’s rarely the height. It’s always the attitude.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I married a guy who if 5'9 does that mean I don't like short men? All I ever wanted was someone at least my height or taller, and I am pretty short.

Anonymous · Answer

My real life crush is 5ft 8inches

My celebrity crush is 6ft 4inches

I'm 5ft 1inch

They actually remind me of each other because they are both so sweet, kind, and respectful to others. And they are both super cute and have an adorable smile. They're also both darker skin than me. They're light brown. And both Latino.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If you stop looking for weak excuses for your failures with women, you might actually get somewhere. Personally, I only date guys my height or not much taller, and I am only 5'2.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason most women won't admit they prefer big dicks... they know how shallow it makes them look.

For decades women have been claiming men are the shallow sex, but in recent years it has become increasingly clear that women are at least as shallow as men, perhaps even more shallow.

mermaidcancermoon · Answer

I only date men my height or taller, im 5'4. It feels like im dating a little kid and during bedroom time they can't do certain positions that taller guys can. Tiptoe effect

Anonymous · Answer

Yep. Most girls are already confirming this. E. g. their boyfriend being 5.6 ft (1.7m) tall and her being shorter than him.

As for us Like so what? It is what it is. live and let live. be happy girls aren't gonna date you for your height. It is a vetting process working in your favor if you want relationships. If you just want lots and lots of sex or hired girlfriends, then make sure to become rich ( work 2 jobs).

HorggleThorp · Answer

I don’t give a fk what your height is my friend, if you’ve got a shitty personality, consider me out.

Paulalove98 · Answer

BUT what if i do like guys under 6 ft too! My crush is 5"7. I don't care if he isn't 6 ft... not every girl thinks like that okay.

melanieeeB · Answer

Cause we don't care that much!  We aren't the ones running around crazy, being insecure about height or length of our sausages

slatyb · Answer

Some women definitely like some short men. I know plenty of men below average height with lovely partners.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t mind short guys, and I certainly don’t dislike anyone because of something they can’t control, but who I do dislike is short guys who make that their entire personality.

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

Yes I should probably end my wonderful relationship, because he is shorter. Good thinking!

Dinklex3 · Answer

Because we don't The ones that care state that they care.

Raaj4you · Answer

It's a personal preference, in some cases kids of shorter parents have grown taller. Everything can't be perfect in life. Life is not about perfection, it's all about living life happily with imperfections.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm really short (5'0") so most guys are tall enough for me. I think that 5'8"-5'10" are the most attractive heights for men but I don't care if a guy is shorter than that as long as he's not shorter than me. My boyfriend is 5'3" and I'm fine with it.

genericname85 · Answer

Because generally speaking women prefer to talk in fuzzy feel good emotional bullshit language rather than cold hard facts.

Anonymous · Answer

Women say all the time they don't like short guys. I'm short and I like tall guys.

JPresidente · Answer

I'm guessing they all have the romantic notion (right or wrong) from their younger years where they dreamed of someone tall, dark and handsome.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I don't think women have any problem admitting they don't like short guys. Didn't "Hinge" post something like 86% of women have their filters set to screen out men under 6'?

Anonymous · Answer

I do admit lol. That's why my boyfriend is 6'2 😂😂

sheikalana · Answer

I've never hidden the fact that I don't really like short guys.

DiegoO · Answer

Height discrimination and face discrimination. Love yourself, don't go by what the general public says.

Anonymous · Answer

Virtue signalling. It's the same reason women would rather character assassinate a guy than admit she don't want to go out with him for superficial reason aka the nice guy.

Staximus · Answer

They don't want people to know how superficial they really are

Anonymous · Answer

What the hell are you even TALKING about dude? Most girls are COMPLETELY open about this fact.

ElvenMr · Answer

Some do, some don't. They might not be honest about it, or they are.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Short men can't protect women so why should women go for short guys?

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

They’re unwilling to go on record saying anything negative publicly

Anonymous · Answer

Well, some don't mind short guys, but yeah, most do.

Monalisa77 · Answer

I do, is that y my crush is single?

misfittoy · Answer

im barley 4'11 everyones taller then me

Minahh · Answer

Because they usually have low self-esteem

Anonymous · Answer

Lots of sad dudes on this thread xD

gag6474 · Answer

relax bro im 5'11 and talked to women

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

Dude women love popeye

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