I don't have a problem, with short guys if they have the same grace and confidence as tall guys. A lot of short guys compensate for being short by over inflating their pride and ego and that is ugly.
To guys and some women, sure. But most aren't that judgmental. So maybe you should accept that rather than disregard it in favor of your own preconceptions.
For some women (95 percent) Most aren't that judgmental (5 percent) And these 5 percent will only date a short guy if he looks handsome, have crazy skills
They actually remind me of each other because they are both so sweet, kind, and respectful to others. And they are both super cute and have an adorable smile. They're also both darker skin than me. They're light brown. And both Latino.
For the same reason most women won't admit they prefer big dicks... they know how shallow it makes them look.
For decades women have been claiming men are the shallow sex, but in recent years it has become increasingly clear that women are at least as shallow as men, perhaps even more shallow.
I only date men my height or taller, im 5'4. It feels like im dating a little kid and during bedroom time they can't do certain positions that taller guys can. Tiptoe effect
Yep. Most girls are already confirming this. E. g. their boyfriend being 5.6 ft (1.7m) tall and her being shorter than him.
As for us Like so what? It is what it is. live and let live. be happy girls aren't gonna date you for your height. It is a vetting process working in your favor if you want relationships. If you just want lots and lots of sex or hired girlfriends, then make sure to become rich ( work 2 jobs).
"Too." There's the key word there. Makes it sound like they're pity f*cks, at best. That's like if I said, "What if I do like old ugly divorced women in their forties with kids, too!"
Tbf girls are insecure about other things, i’d say mainly the ass and boobs and face. To some lesser degree i’d say most girls are conscious about their legs also.
I don’t mind short guys, and I certainly don’t dislike anyone because of something they can’t control, but who I do dislike is short guys who make that their entire personality.
If you stop looking for weak excuses for your failures with women, you might actually get somewhere. Personally, I only date guys my height or not much taller, and I am only 5'2.
It’s not a weak excuse…you clearly stated you only date guys your height or taller. If you a 4’10” guy, how are you gonna find women who would date you?
@insteadfew I'm 5'3. I was with someone who was 5'5 even though i thought he was originally 5'2. & This guy has no problem getting women. If we say we don't care, then we don't.
@insteadfew they weren't high heeled, lol. They're normal, just wasn't expecting them to add height to me. I wouldn't know. I've only seen one other girl he was involved with. I don't know how tall she was, but she was taller than me.
It's a personal preference, in some cases kids of shorter parents have grown taller. Everything can't be perfect in life. Life is not about perfection, it's all about living life happily with imperfections.
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I'm really short (5'0") so most guys are tall enough for me. I think that 5'8"-5'10" are the most attractive heights for men but I don't care if a guy is shorter than that as long as he's not shorter than me. My boyfriend is 5'3" and I'm fine with it.
Just got to point out how annoying it is to see a literal five foot tall woman say the height she wants a guy to be is 5'10". A woman has to be five inches below average in order to find 'nothing too bad' about a guy who is dead-average height. THAT'S how sh*tty and negative being "average height" is, on a man. A woman has to be a damn near legal dwarf (which would be 4'10", by the way) in order to find it baseline "acceptable."
@JHAYES317 What do you mean by he has to make up for the fact that he's not 5'8"-5'10"? He has to make up for it by doing what?
Also, there is a difference between a preference and a requirement. Just because someone thinks that people who are 5'8"-5'10" are the most attractive doesn't mean that people who are outside of that range are unattractive and not worth having a relationship with.
Men care about women's heights too. Some prefer shorter women and some prefer taller women. Sometimes it isn't even a preference it's a requirement. A lot of men would not accept a woman who is taller than him. So it's okay for men to have height preferences and/or requirements but not women?
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haha. why are you complaining about women not wanting short guys? men like you are always trying to go for a woman 10-15 years younger.
You don't care about a man's height?
@insteadfew
you don't care about a woman's age?
Thus isn't the answer
@insteadfew
you didn't answer my question either.
Age does matter to me.
Now u
@insteadfew
A tall man is not important to me. As long as he is at least my height i am find with it
Lmfao men dont give a fuck about age
you just said age matters to you
How tall are you
Age and height aren’t correlated lady
I don't have a problem, with short guys if they have the same grace and confidence as tall guys. A lot of short guys compensate for being short by over inflating their pride and ego and that is ugly.
Why can't men just accept our answers instead of ignoring what we tell you
Height is very important
To guys and some women, sure. But most aren't that judgmental. So maybe you should accept that rather than disregard it in favor of your own preconceptions.
For some women (95 percent)
Most aren't that judgmental (5 percent)
And these 5 percent will only date a short guy if he looks handsome, have crazy skills
1. you got the percentages wrong. Making shit up or using bad sources is not based in fact.
2. Also not true. Don't caricature us based on YOUR preconceptions.
I married a guy who if 5'9 does that mean I don't like short men?
All I ever wanted was someone at least my height or taller, and I am pretty short.
Even thr shortest girl only dates a 5'9 guy
We're fucked, totaliter fucked
@Aerissa_Jade
Anything under six feet is considered short/not good enough on a guy. So marrying a 5'9"-er would be a short guy, yes.
5’9” is average height not short so unless you would have married a guy shorter than you, yeah you don’t like short men
My real life crush is 5ft 8inches
My celebrity crush is 6ft 4inches
I'm 5ft 1inch
They actually remind me of each other because they are both so sweet, kind, and respectful to others. And they are both super cute and have an adorable smile. They're also both darker skin than me. They're light brown. And both Latino.
What did the asker disagree on? lmao
5’8” isn’t short
For the same reason most women won't admit they prefer big dicks... they know how shallow it makes them look.
For decades women have been claiming men are the shallow sex, but in recent years it has become increasingly clear that women are at least as shallow as men, perhaps even more shallow.
I only date men my height or taller, im 5'4. It feels like im dating a little kid and during bedroom time they can't do certain positions that taller guys can. Tiptoe effect
You base your whole relationship around sex
@Summeroflove No. But it is definitely a important to me. My boyfriend and I have sex daily. 2 years strong.
So a 5'5 guy is not that bad and not turn off?
@insteadfew Nope. My boyfriend is 5'8
5'8 might be shorter than a 6 feet guy but it isn't thaat bad and short
5'6 or less is actually short and bad on a man
Should wait until after you’re married. There is no love.
So because a guy is shorter than you see them as a little kid…wtf is wrong with you?
Yep. Most girls are already confirming this. E. g. their boyfriend being 5.6 ft (1.7m) tall and her being shorter than him.
As for us Like so what? It is what it is. live and let live. be happy girls aren't gonna date you for your height. It is a vetting process working in your favor if you want relationships. If you just want lots and lots of sex or hired girlfriends, then make sure to become rich ( work 2 jobs).
Some women definitely like some short men. I know plenty of men below average height with lovely partners.
I don’t give a fk what your height is my friend, if you’ve got a shitty personality, consider me out.
Oh and the converse is true too. I’m all for personality. My guy is 5’6”
Lol,"personality"
I guess you have sex with personality
I don’t have sex at all. I’m asexual.
Do not just assume things.
That explains it. I've seen Asexual women with short partners a lot. There is in fact a correlation there.
BUT what if i do like guys under 6 ft too! My crush is 5"7. I don't care if he isn't 6 ft... not every girl thinks like that okay.
Je's probably handsome af
"But what if I do like guys under 6 feet too!"
"Too." There's the key word there. Makes it sound like they're pity f*cks, at best. That's like if I said, "What if I do like old ugly divorced women in their forties with kids, too!"
Cause we don't care that much!
We aren't the ones running around crazy, being insecure about height or length of our sausages
Tbf girls are insecure about other things, i’d say mainly the ass and boobs and face. To some lesser degree i’d say most girls are conscious about their legs also.
You do Care, stop the cap
Guess why guys are crazy insecure about their height and/or length of their sausage?
It’s rarely the height. It’s always the attitude.
It's not
Point made.
Yep, height isn't important
Thats why women always say that they want a tall guy
Would you date a guy shorter than you? If not, you can’t say anything
I don’t mind short guys, and I certainly don’t dislike anyone because of something they can’t control, but who I do dislike is short guys who make that their entire personality.
Yep, blame it on us
The Napoleon complex
If you stop looking for weak excuses for your failures with women, you might actually get somewhere. Personally, I only date guys my height or not much taller, and I am only 5'2.
Not much taller as in?
Yeah, blame the short guy
And of course you don't consider women using height as a weak excuse to just reject someone they lead on.
It’s not a weak excuse…you clearly stated you only date guys your height or taller. If you a 4’10” guy, how are you gonna find women who would date you?
She don't really argue but rather paralyze in fear when the truth is spoken
Yes I should probably end my wonderful relationship, because he is shorter. Good thinking!
He's either extremely good looking or rich af
Because we don't
The ones that care state that they care.
You don't bother if a guy is actually short around 5'6 or so?
@insteadfew I'm 5'3.
I was with someone who was 5'5 even though i thought he was originally 5'2.
& This guy has no problem getting women.
If we say we don't care, then we don't.
Damn. Why would a 5'5 guy look lke he's just 5'2?
Was he insecure?
@insteadfew I was almost taller than him with my work boots so i just assumed.
He's very attractive. If he was, he didn't show it.
You ignored your high heeled boots 🤣
Lol
So he was handsome man.. umh..
Women even taller ones liked him?
@insteadfew they weren't high heeled, lol. They're normal, just wasn't expecting them to add height to me. I wouldn't know. I've only seen one other girl he was involved with. I don't know how tall she was, but she was taller than me.
You have only seen one other girl... still you say and feel this short guy didn't had problems getting women?
@insteadfew I was with him for over a year. So yes. Why would I see him other women when he was with me?
Maybe other women showed interest in him 😋😜
@insteadfew Why would other women show their interest in him when they know he's with me?
Because he's smart attractive and handsome 😉?
@insteadfew?
Do you hit on girls that are with your friends or know are in relationships?
Women say all the time they don't like short guys. I'm short and I like tall guys.
At least you're honest
I like to see honesty when it comes to your gender. You just said it and didn't even mix it up with word salad like most chicks.
Have you had no issues finding said tall guys to date?
It's a personal preference, in some cases kids of shorter parents have grown taller. Everything can't be perfect in life. Life is not about perfection, it's all about living life happily with imperfections.
I'm really short (5'0") so most guys are tall enough for me. I think that 5'8"-5'10" are the most attractive heights for men but I don't care if a guy is shorter than that as long as he's not shorter than me. My boyfriend is 5'3" and I'm fine with it.
Just got to point out how annoying it is to see a literal five foot tall woman say the height she wants a guy to be is 5'10". A woman has to be five inches below average in order to find 'nothing too bad' about a guy who is dead-average height. THAT'S how sh*tty and negative being "average height" is, on a man. A woman has to be a damn near legal dwarf (which would be 4'10", by the way) in order to find it baseline "acceptable."
Fine with it, but not ideal, so your boyfriend is constantly going to have to make up for the fact that he’s not 5’8” - 5’10”…that’s pretty fucked up.
@JHAYES317 What do you mean by he has to make up for the fact that he's not 5'8"-5'10"? He has to make up for it by doing what?
Also, there is a difference between a preference and a requirement. Just because someone thinks that people who are 5'8"-5'10" are the most attractive doesn't mean that people who are outside of that range are unattractive and not worth having a relationship with.
Men care about women's heights too. Some prefer shorter women and some prefer taller women. Sometimes it isn't even a preference it's a requirement. A lot of men would not accept a woman who is taller than him. So it's okay for men to have height preferences and/or requirements but not women?
In my case I don’t give a crap about height. It would bother me if I was dating someone and they found other people more attractive than me tbh