Where is the line between being understanding and getting walked over?

[Xenon21]

Girl that I'm kind of seeing is going through a depressive episode. She's always had mental health issues but in recent months it's just gotten worse. If I call her up, she'll not want to hang up the phone. If I say I want to see her, she will always be up for that. If she can't make it then she will reschedule. She said that she's always gotten good vibes from me. The part which is a bit weird for me is if I text her, she'll just ignore me and will leave me on read. I know she's going through a lot. She's deleted her social medias (after a manic breakdown). However, I wake up in the morning and see her last online is like 3am. Who is she speaking to? It feels from my point of view that she messages everyone else except me. It's not like she is a bad texter, she has always been good. Always used to keep me in the loop. I just feel disconnected recently. Am I being pushed over or what? I never bring up how she just blanks me cause I think she is going through enough but it does make me feel bad a lot of the time.

[Truth0225]

Seems like she’s being selfish and considering only herself while you are making excuses for her. You’re being put in the zone of a comfort blanket. When she has her episodes she comes to u but when she doesn’t she’s doing her. This is selfish behavior and cannot allow anyone to put you in that spot,