How is it that you make love to someone and have amazing sex and then a few days later they tell you it’s not working anymore?

[Finchie40]

This is why I drink beer , Has this ever happened to you? A girl I been seeing all of a sudden changes her mind about being with me, How do you go from really liking someone to automatically not wanting to be with them anymore? Do I take her serious? I know girls are emotional humans but this just blows my mind , Do I just say oh well nice knowing you and move on to the next? Or am I supposed to fight for her and say no baby don’t leave me , I love you, we can make this work. I am so done with games that girls play. It’s shit like this that makes me lose all respect for girls , my mind is racing with thoughts on what I did wrong , and thoughts did she meet someone else , or like someone else , Why would a girl all of a sudden just change her mind after she tells me all
These sweet things and having amazing sex together , Like wtf!!!

[Anonymous]

It sounds like something has changed. Like something she has found out about you that isn't working for her or maybe she likes someone else?
It's hard to say.


Also, you assume it was great sex but women are known to fake orgasms to not hurt the male ego. No offence to you but there are a lot of studies, votes and articles about women faking sexual pleasure to not hurt the man’s feelings.

[Finchie40]

It definitely wasn’t fake orgasm trust me on that one she tapped out before me , I am being serious there , But just blows my mind why people act this way

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I don't know. I used to fake orgasms all the time. It’s pretty easy to pull off and the man is non the wiser.

But back to my original point. Is there any chance she might of found something out about you that turned her off?

[thoseblues]

It sounds like someone else may have come into the picture. If she can’t give you exact examples of what’s not working or not willing to try to fix things. Then it’s more likely someone else…

[Finchie40]

Yea I agree , I just told her to be honest with me , just give me an honest answer , if you met someone else tell me , if you like someone else tell me , don’t be around the bush about things , I can’t stand people that do that to other people , just be honest , let me move on if you don’t want to be with me anymore , Something so simple that people turn into a mountain of shit , either which way the truth is going to come out so why hide it , hiding it is just making it worse for the other person to move on , Let they are stringing you on weighing their options ,

[NathanDavis]

never ever had anything like that happening to me...

but if it did, I would still not drink beer... lol

[Finchie40]

I hope you never do bro , Girl’s are fucking crazy

[NathanDavis]

not the ones in my life though...

well that depends on how you mean "crazy" but they're not "mental"

I've been quite selective with people though

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yea something happened or someone else Re-entered her life

[rachel776]

yeah another guy

[Finchie40]

I figured as much , why I don’t give myself completely to girls anymore and take things slow , tired of getting shit on from selfish people