How do you give a girl space when you care about her?

[mattclark242]

how do you give a girl space when you care about her? a girl to me to scew off in a nice kinda of way and she said she have a lot going on with her life and kids she said it hard to get me give her thing that she want or need. she told me go away in a nice way. But I think that if someone dose not help her her life be bad and she do bad thing? she also dose not trust me any more cause I lie to her. how do I get her trust back? how do I show her that I care but also give her space? cause I keep feeling the need to want help her. she also said that I have predatory behavior and she think that I am crazy and will try hurt her or her kids.

I think she could hurt me cause she dose bad thing. I feel she is manipulative and she act like a sad girl some time. But I don't know if she said or she need what she said or she just a brat. I have a bad thing about me where I care for people who I should not care for I don't know why.

[HateyouxD]

If you claim you care for someone then that'll automatically make you feel okay to give her space. You have to be okay with yourself. That's the only way.
Because people who are controlling dont either trust themselves or the situations and FEAR controls them.
I know you care about her... but care about her space and BOUNDARIES. Once you do she will most likely take notice and come running back to you because she does care.
Now, I don't know what went down between you but it's okay to fight and ask for space and to have space.
"Separation makes the heart grow fonder"
Its true!!!

[Anonymous]

Just ignore her. She will come to you if she wants you.

[es20490446e]

My answer would be:

"I'm sorry I did that to you. I hope to do well from now on.

If you ever feel like meeting sometime, let me know"

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Ditch the bitch as they say & move on dude.

[In_Trance]

You ask this already

[mattclark242]

oh sorry I forgot I need think of something new to ask