She came over to our table with my work associates and was hanging all over me. I was embarrassed, what should I have done?

[Bricealan]

I was having an affair with a runway model who was married and had sex with her a few times. She was modeling at a large restaurant, and saw me with my work associates, and came over and was hanging all over me, and I did not know how to handle that, as it had never happened before. I told her she should be modeling the clothes and should not hang around my table. WHAT SHOULD I have done?

[Anonymous]

Nothing at that moment, but ask her out if you like her.

[Bricealan]

That was the problem. We had gone out but she was making a scene in front of my work group

[Opinion Owner]

She might be toxic?

[LazerBean]

Make better choices.

[Bricealan]

@LazerBean Too late now for that experience. I just did not think she would make a scene like that, and I was really embarrassed, with my work group that she would be that thoughtless. At the time, I should have gotten up and taken her aside and told her to stop, that she was making an ass out of herself and embarrassing me with my work peers

[LazerBean]

You can't expect a cheater to be classy. In the future, if you don't want to associate with someone in public, you shouldn't associate with them in private either.

[Bricealan]

@LazerBean A lesson, learned too late, as I had a few really awful experiences when sleeping with married women when I was in my 20's and early 30's. I don't know if all married women conduct themselves like that, and can only guess.

[LazerBean]

It's safe to assume that any person who cheats on their spouse is the scum of the earth and a horrible person.

[Bricealan]

In retrospect, I did have a cousin, that had several affairs while married, and she told me about it, and asked me not to tell anyone. Well reflecting on what you just said, I found out much later, that she was REPEATING just about everything I had confided to her. So, l guess you are correct.

[Anonymous]

Have sex with her.

[Bricealan]

That was the problem. We already had and she was really being crazy hanging at the table like that and it was embarrassing in front of my work associates

[Opinion Owner]

Tag a buddy In

[BJP21]

If you're off the clock anything goes.