As a girl, would you feel at least SOME animosity if you had a very unattractive guy as your next door neighbor?

[Anonymous]

I've had girls around my age as neighbors & for the most part they have acted like complete counts towards me or patronizing when I was around them or had to pass by them (frowns)

They only stop once they see how naturally aggressive & moody I get because I have terrible anger issues

From then on we "block" each other when we see each other

[petitedollbabee]

No, why would I care, they’re my neighbour. They’re not living in my house and I’m not having to interact with them much. I’m not going to hate on someone just for their looks.

[Asker]

My female neighbors would either act very scared, furious, or frown at me purposely, roll their eyes

A few have gasped if they saw me & a few have started saying some disrespectful things as I walked by

I still live by a FEW of these girls & eventually they saw through my bitterness & have completely left me alone but if we do run into each other they act as if I'm not there NOW as opposed to when I was being disrespected

It took 9 years though

[petitedollbabee]

Are you sure it’s your looks that have caused these reactions? Or have you done things to make them hate you? I wouldn’t hate a neighbour for the way that they look, but I would hate a neighbour for the way that they act if they were doing disruptive or disgusting things aimed towards me.

[Asker]

I have a step uncle who looks like Henry Cavill (he's 6'2/235lb & were pretty close & whenever he comes around to visit me or to take me out to dinner or a to see a movie (I'm a social outcast)

All the same gals who give me frown, dirty looks, or bitchy behavior the. Into complete "sweethearts" whenever he comes around

[petitedollbabee]

That doesn’t answer what I asked.

[Asker]

It does

Simply put I'm seen as a parish & a nuisance (outcast) because I'm not some attractive cocky asshole while my step uncle is very attractive but is down to earth... he gets a pass

You might not want to believe this to be true but it does happen

[petitedollbabee]

I’ll take that as a “no, I haven’t done anything behaviour wise to make them hate me”.

[HappyWoman34]

Nope. I already have that. My ex boyfriend who took my virginity years ago moved in across the road from me. Weird much? He’s an unattractive guy and I don’t have a problem with it.

[Anonymous]

Dude, it's probably your "anger issues" and aggressive outbursts that's making them weary around you lol

[Asker]

That was after

Before that I was literally a "quiet, shy," type but being PERCEIVED as unattractive on top of "shy" & "quiet" is what brought the wolves out for their "sheep" clothing

[Opinion Owner]

Oh sorry, I misread that.

[Anonymous]

Why would it bother me at all?

[Asker]

It has my gal neighbors for the past 9 years