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There's a girl in one of my classes who's been nothing but trouble. She's been told me I look like a freshman, stares at me the times she's made me cry in class or when I covered my ears when the fire alarm went off. She asked me "You know (insert name), right?" when her friend was there. I used to work with her friend and she was trouble too. For many reasons, I ignore they exist and asked the teacher specifically not to be put with her. But they still act like nothing ever happened between us and tries to convince the whole class that I'm cold and insane. And she doesn't respect my boundaries. I brought cards against humanity and she asked to play. I said no. But apparently "no" means "yes," "fuck off" means "come stick around," and "go back to your table" means "keep sitting here," She seems to be pretty convincing to the class because when she refused to leave, I stormed off and cried in the bathroom feeling hurt, angry, and like a pushover while they played the game I brought without me. 5-10 minutes later I eventually thought to myself that this was unacceptable and I grew a spine and kicked her out or I'd put the game away
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Well I'm not sure if the term "infantilized" applies here. You are, however certainly being bullied. I think you have every right to be upset at the way this girl is treating you. You need to figure out some way to not let her "win." She enjoys seeing that she's able to get to you. If she can get you to storm off crying, she gets exactly what she wants. Find some way to deny this to her (like deciding to put the game away if she refuses to leave instead of letting her make YOU become the one who leaves).
Call her a loser. Make a big show about how she's unwanted, but keeps trying to be your friend. (if she tries to pull something like she did with the game and refusing to leave). Turn the tables on her. You gotta somehow shake-up the dynamic between the two of you. Make it cost her something to fuck with you. Make the cost high enough, and she'll stop. I hope one way or another this girl leaves you alone. You deserve to be able to exist in peace without this nonsense. 🙂
It can't be bullying. She's just an asshole
Sure. If you want to call it that, then alright. But it amounts to the same thing here.
@catem I know it can be hard to accept, but it looks like you're being bullied. Have you ever reported her to the dean or your teacher? Do you have any friends in that class?
@hiddenheart I never reported her because I had already made a scene in class and didn't want more drama. I have friends in that class, but they never stand up for me. That day we were playing, I didn't get much more than a "her game her rules" from them.
Oh my... that is not good. You need to report her
You should f*ck her boyfriend or her Dad to get back at her.
Oh dear. Based on what you've said, you don't seem to realize you're being bullied