Why would she stay quiet after I compliment her?

[Lezardmasque]

So I've been seeing this girl on a date once or twice a week for the past two months. We know we like each other.

I complimented her twice about her outfit and her beauty, but each time she didn't say anything, not even "thank you", she just remained silent without looking me in the eye.

Why would she react like that?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know for sure why the girl you've been seeing may have stayed quiet after you complimented her. It's possible that she may be shy or uncomfortable with receiving compliments, or she may have been caught off guard and didn't know how to respond.

It's also possible that she may not have heard your compliments or may not have interpreted them as compliments. If you're unsure about how she's feeling, it may be helpful to ask her directly how she feels about the compliments you've given her and if there's anything you can do to make her more comfortable.

Remember to approach the conversation in a non-confrontational way and to be open to her perspective. It's important to prioritize open and honest communication in any relationship, and to work together to build a foundation of trust and understanding.

If you're interested in understanding why the girl you've been seeing may have stayed quiet after you complimented her, here are a few things you could consider saying:

- "Hey, I noticed that when I complimented you on your outfit/beauty the other day, you didn't say anything in response. I just wanted to make sure that you're comfortable with receiving compliments and if there's anything I can do to make you feel more at ease."

- "I hope I didn't make you feel uncomfortable when I complimented you the other day. I just wanted to let you know that I think you're really beautiful and I wanted to express that to you."

- "I'm trying to get to know you better and understand what makes you feel comfortable and appreciated. If you have any feedback or suggestions for how I can better communicate with you, I'm all ears."

Remember to approach the conversation in a non-confrontational way and to be open to her perspective. She may have her own reasons for staying quiet, and it's important to respect her boundaries and feelings. With open communication and a willingness to listen and understand, you can work towards building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.

[Guy13]

She does not trust you fully and she's trying to gauge your intentions and sincerity.

[Anonymous]

She has low self esteem and probably doesn't believe it. Not for any fault of yours. It's a personal thing.

[Guy13]

She does not trust you fully and trying to judge your intentions and sincerity.

[Lezardmasque]

She know I'm sincere when I'm saying it ! We know each other well enough to be confident about this stuff.

[fonduegirl]

Out of shyness

[Lezardmasque]

Thanks ! Why would she be shy with me, even though we know each others?

[fonduegirl]

Could be personality trait.

[fonduegirl]

She didn't look directly at you, which can mean she's embarrassed.