I asked a girl for her Ig and she gave it to me and said I can text her so I texted her right after we talked and she never responded to my text?

[Anonymous]

I need advice on what this mean. I never talked to her by the way but I wanted to be her friend and get to know her since she so cute so I asked for her ig and she said yes and I let her use my phone to put it in. (Our convo was so awkward because I was a nervous piece of shit and I accidentally hit her hand while grabbing my phone from her hand and literally made very little eye contact.)

I then asked to be friends and she said yeah you can text me so I texted her right after we talked and she has never respond to my texts. I even asked her to follow me back on ig on one of her posts but she never responded to that either so I was confused. I then saw that she had a tik tok so I followed that and she posts a lot on there so I commented “you’re cute” and “are you going to text me back” and she didn’t like or respond to my comment like she does everyone else but she kept on viewing my tok tok profile. She even deleted her tik tok that I was the only one to comment on. I thought that was so weird. So I’m asking why would a girl do this? Does she not like me? She doesn’t even know me foreal we just met and I haven’t done or sad anything rude to her. I need advice, this girl driving me nuts and she’s so confusing.

(by the way she does have many followers like over 3,000 so I don't know if this can be a factor maybe she hadn’t seen my texts yet but I don’t think so since she’s always active and she viewed my insta story after I liked hers).

[Anonymous]

over 3000 followers? sign she isn't really into you and already busy with other people on that site. i don't even get the hint that she even liked you based on what you describe as your encounter with her. i'm even worried that she'll block you if you keep trying to make contact with her or posting on her stuff trying to give off the impression you know her to other people that follow her

keep in mind you don't really know her well at all , just followed her online and doesn't even seem like she cared

[Asker]

We didn’t talk much just a little bit. But she seemed nice, and was staring dead into my eyes but I looked away most of the time. She was smiling a little bit too 😳 but I deleted my text and unfollowed her ig

[Opinion Owner]

i doubt she cares if you follow her instagram , its the endless posts and comments which will annoy her , the perception that you know her well and making you profile visible on all her posts that others see publicly

[Asker]

I don’t bother her tho, It was just 1 comment on her ig and 2 on her tik tok after I didn’t get a message from her on ig in 5 days.

[Opinion Owner]

still you tried to make contact online on 2 different social media platforms and you don't really know her well at all do you? and this was after she didn't reply to your message , you didn't get the first hint that she wasn't into you

[Asker]

Well I thought she didn’t see my message since she has over 4, 000 + followers , (I went back to her account and it’s almost at 5,00) but I understand what you’re saying.

[Asker]

Almost at 5,000

[Opinion Owner]

its possible she gets a lot of messages from people she doesn't actually know at all on that site if she has that many followers so she might not of paid attention to your message

but at its core your missing the point , she doesn't actually know you , your not part of her inner circle of friends. you randomly asked for it one day which was cute and maybe she liked the attention but she doesn't like know you at all

[Asker]

Yeah I get what you’re saying. But that’s why I asked to be friends, cause I wanna get to know her more but CLEARY that’s not what she want

[Opinion Owner]

she's type who has too many options and isn't really looking for new friends , its tough to get into the social circle of someone like that , unless your famous , rich or having crazy parties every weekend isn't going to be easy

[coachTanthony]

She likes you being a FAN and a FOLLOWER. They always say YES so you stay following them.

[Monalisa77]

This keeps happening to me, they say i can follow them Then dont bother replying to msgs.

[gag37627]

I thought only guys go through this

[Monalisa77]

Nope happens to everyone

[gag37627]

I find it so disrespectful when someone does that

[gag37627]

by the way, can I have your opinion on my question

[Anonymous]

Damn slow down. Whatever happened to getting to know someone first.

[Asker]

So you think it’s bad I texted her quickly? We don’t see each other often see we’re both busy

[FilmGuy93]

Let her get back to you when she gets back to you; what's the rush?

[JustinTheGreat]

She’s not interested. She probably only gave you her Instagram and said she’d text you back just to be polite.
but if she wanted to, she would have be now.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Typical e-girl... all she wanted was attention and another follower, she has 0 interest in you. Bonus: She might have judged you also on that first moment and left a bad imoression. Go unfollow her and move on.

[mb120101]

Too much my man, commenting Why aren't you replying will scare her off 100%

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't trust social media girls. They just want temporary attention

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[noohair]

So what you have seen is social media it not social and can be disappointing. People only show one side of themselves. The fake side. And then they become fake in person.

[Iron_Man]

That’s way too fast, but she should have responded back to you

[Asker]

What’s way too fast? Me texting her?

[Lonelydudewantsagirl]

Women rarely reply to messages. Same with dating apps. They’ll match with you and ignore all your messages. It’s rude behavior from them but it’s part of their narcissistic mindset.

[Vegasrunner]

It means she's not interested so go find another one that is simple as that.

[Legendarylegacy13]

She probably was very pretty and you may have felt a connection , but just move on.

[TheFlak38]

She gained another follower. That's what she wanted from you.

[In_Trance]

Well that was fun for a minute or 2.
Move along

[Asker]

Are you telling me to move on from her? Not even ask her why when I see her again?

[In_Trance]

Bruh. ..

[Legendarylegacy13]

No don't ask her. She gave you her real information probably so you could follow not like a fake phone number if you keep trying to talk to her it's going to seem like she needs a restraing order

[cloverina]

She might've forgotten who you are