Girls, I can’t shake this feeling?

[Brokenheart14]

I met this girl with serious health problems, and she warned me from the beginning. For 3 months we talked everyday. I noticed she pulled back and I asked what was wrong and she said she realized due to her health school and taking care of family she has no time for a relationship. We continued to talk, I felt there was more and txted her one day. She got super pissed and called me explaining it’s not cause of anyone else it’s cause of everything going on in her life. I apologized and explained I don’t want to lose her. She said she don’t want to lose me either but I need to prove myself and not ask her if something is wrong everytime she don’t answer right away. I’m not sure what to do, I value her and feel like regardless of out come it’s a lose lose situation. I hate that she pulled away from me I feel as if I lost someone important, I’m not even sure I lost her but I feel as if I did.

[Changiis07]

She sounds like she has a lot going on and like she mentioned she has no time for a relationship. You can choose to be there for her as a friend but don't continue it if you want something serious. She basically only has time to talk to you here and there and is choosing school, her family as a priority right now

[Brokenheart14]

I totally respect that and understand, but man it sucks. I literally can’t stop thinking about her and how amazing she is for everything she does. I’m trying to be a friend and be there for her. I’m not sure why I meet these girls, it feels as if I’m being punished lol but I can’t stop thinking about her

[Changiis07]

You can keep yourself busy by hanging out with other girls but being honest with them if you don't want anything serious and that could keep you from thinking so much about the other one