Is he losing interest?

[Anonymous]

I have being seeing a guy for a while, we gave being texting everyday and I would usually see him three or four times a week. With the last week he seems distant and I haven't heard much from him? What do you think about this? Am I overthinking things..? Should I wait for him to contact me? I would appreciate any advise :)

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+1 y

Thanks for answering! The answer is, he is with another girl now..

[Mr187canada]

There could be many reasons for this. It could be because he's found a new girl. It could be because he's just busy with life. It could be because he's lost interest into you. It could be because he wants to see if you will contact him.

There could be number of reasons why I suggest just waiting a bit after it's become like a week of no conversation than text him he's likely just waiting for you to text him. Maybe he rather see if your interested into him as much as he's interested into you. I use to always hate when I was the one always texting the girls I was with. And so lately I decided to wait till they text me so I can see they want to talk to me and are interested into having a conversation with me.

Maybe he's the same way, maybe he's not. There's not much to go by what you tell so I suggest texting him if he's not interested into you like any guy he will keep it short and simple, if he's interested he will try his best to keep a conversation going. So just try it because for all you know maybe he's just waiting for you to do it. If he's the one to be normally always texting first than I can likely see him trying to see if your interested into him and willing to text him first instead. If not well you can just see if he wants to keep the conversation going. Any guy interested into a girl will try his best to keep the conversation going as said billions of times.

[Anonymous]

I have been there before. It is hard to stop thinking about things and just let it happen. Sooner or later your relationships progress and things change. Just make sure he is still into you when you guys hang out. and texting him is fine just make sure it isn't to much, texting should be a mutual thing. good luck ;)

[Tamikaze]

I think noticing a change in a pattern is valuable but the lack of contact could be as much about something else as it is about you. You do not say how long you have been dating. You also don't mention if you are in a relationship or just dating. The longer you are with someone the more significant a change like this is. If he is going through something and you two have been together for a while hopefully he would confide in you. Also, the closer you are, the more comfortable you should be in asking him straight up what is going on. Good luck!

[Badbunny]

Yes! definitly wait for him to contact you as much as its going to kill you and as much as you want to text him. I am just like you and overanalyze and overthink EVERYTHING. But trust me, if you wait for him to contact you, over time he will be like "oh, so and so hasn't contacted me in awhile" and text you. If he doesn't contact you for at least 4 or 5 days finally give in if you absolutely have to or move on to someone who will always want to give you the time of day. Easier said then done but its possible with time :) Good Luck!

[Asker]

Thanks! I won't give in, I am a very stubborn and head strong person. I just find it very unusual that I haven't heard from him.. I have seen him and spoke to him for a couple minutes. Probably reading too much into it!

[Anonymous]

Yes wait for him to contact you. He may just be having a bad week, then again it depends on how he is treating you. If he's being cold and distant maybe you should be worried that he is losing interest. Just wait and see what happens if not you could always send him a text once and see what kind of response you get.

[friday02]

I say you are over thinking, space is wonderful he's just displaying his natural distance of what he requires in a relationship and I find it healthy that he is doing this. Most relationships will get to this point, so try to relax see it though and enjoy having your own life

[LadyofChrist777]

Best way to know is to not contact him, if he eventually contacts you then you'll know that he cares about whatever connection you guys have with each other as much as you.

May sound childish but it works.

[upskrtcelebs]

Usually someone (girl or guy) only goes cold turkey if they are depressed, suddenly have too much going on in their life, or are having sex with someone else. You should be open in your relationship - ask him what's up?

[confused415]

oh no :( I saw your update. I'm sorry :/ Time to be single and ready to mingle! :D

[Asker]

Thanks! I've already started mingling ;) I won't let a d***head like him bring me down ;)

[confused415]

good :D

[confused415]

Just let it go. Let him come to you, he's the one being distant so be distant as well. Best of luck!

[Anonymous]

Give it a week or two to see if things return to normal. If not, have a friendly chat about where he thinks you guys are going.

[Anonymous]

(in regards to your update) What an ass! You can do better :)

[Anonymous]

ya just wait for the distant guy to contact you lmao

[Anonymous]

thats happend to me he might like another girl, but don't try and contact him and if he contacts you make him sweat dnt respond for a couple of days.

[Mr187canada]

do that and 80 percent of the time they'll know the game and not bother with you anymore. Most guys know if a girl that is normally quick to responses ends up taking a few days than she's playing a game. Where not all stupid remember that.

[Opinion Owner]

hes doing the samething then...

[jennyXjuvenile]

just wait maybe he is busy