I have been called ugly so when I notice someone receiving praise I get so jealous. I think it's unfair. I don't look that bad and these women don't look that good. I'm straight so I'm jealous of women. Also I have been a victim of physical and emotional abuse so when I see these privileged women getting everything I lose my mind.
You are you… just come to terms and be happy with yourself. These other people can’t help who they are either. Just put good energy out there. It will only help you. It literally will not hurt. And just because someone else is and you’re not, doesn’t mean you have to (or should) go and make a scene and make a point to ruin their day too. They didn’t do anything to you.
See how messed up that is? Sounds like you’re being your own worst enemy. People would like you more if you didn’t feel the need to be that way. I’ve dealt with stuff like this with friends of mine. Like for years everything was good, then all the sudden, everything is a competition, and all I’m doing is chillin. Before I know it, the day is ruined because they had a meltdown and it’s “all MY fault”
Definitely has impacted my friendships with these people. Have no time for that… not saying that’s how you are necessary, but just think about how you’re coming across. Don’t dwell on things you can’t control.
It's understandable as long as you don't react and behave on these emotions, I don't think it can stop but you can work on yourself and try making yourself more wanted if you believe you are that unattractive, I can guarantee when you feel prettier, your jealousy for others would diminish or at they very least decrease
There will always be someone more attractive than the last. There are even people more attractive than the girl you find attractive. Its a fight you will never win. Sometimes you might have attractive features or things that other attractive people dont have. Beauty is in eye of the beholder. Often times not everyone will find the same things / person attractive. I was hanging out with a guy friend who told me the girl over there is hot af, i look over and she's the most average looking girl ever. Just being honest.
Seek therapy for your abuse
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i'm dorry.., you gottq have confidence, yoy gotta learn to love yourself and most of all you gottq learn to trust God and yoy know there will aleayw be people smarter than you, more beautiful than you, more successful... learn the value of beinh down to earth just like our Lord Jesus He is God but born in a mamget, He was a caroenter, He is never arrogant but He created everything and everyone.
You suffer from inferiority complex. If you get over your inferiority complex and start loving yourself, it won't matter whether people praise you or hate you. You must learn to be happy in yourself. See what you are good at that others don't and then work on it to boost your self-esteem.
My friend was like that she had three other cousins that were more beautiful than her. She always tell me what I thought about her cousins and if they were ugly. She would say I am prettier then them though would get jealous cause guys would ignore her and choose her cousins who were 3 years older and younger than her.
Work on whatever it is that makes you feel insecure.
You have to learn to accept the things you can not change
Know that some other women are jealous of you just as much. You just don't know it.
Stop looking at her and wishing you had her poor life
Play the hand you're dealt with.
Be more you. Focus on you 😊
Don't compare yourself with other
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