Girls, She asked me if I’m upset I sent her a poem and she was like not today it gonna mess my mood up and I said okay and good night she asked if ok?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to her for 3-4 months and I like her more than a friend I think she knows that too but she’s got trust issues and she calls me out of the blue sometimes she moved to a different city and was on call with me the whole time driving there and she was sleepy and I told her to sleep I’ll wake you up and I called to wake her up later that day we FaceTimed. She’s comfortable with me and trusts me What do I do?

[_Maya_]

Maybe she had a bad day and wasn't in the mood for a poem because she can't appreciate it. I dunno. That is just one thing I can think of. If you have good contact with her in calls and stuff, I wouldn't worry about it too much. I don't see much wrong with what you are saying. Maybe she asked if you were okay because she saw something that made her think otherwise.

[Asker]

We’re good friends and I like her more than a friend I actually have a really romantic dinner planned for her but she doesn’t go out like that on dates and I made a video collage of couple of celebrities saying happy birthday to her she’s never had something like this done for her I called her when I sent one of the videos and she said “Making me cry” I FaceTimed her and she picked up but she hung up in 10 seconds does she now want me to see her in an emotional state like that? She’s told me her life story and opened up to me about it. How do I open up to her about my feelings?

[_Maya_]

Sounds like maybe you are pushing too hard and moving too fast. Either that or she is emotionally imbalanced right now.

[Asker]

She is an emotional person but she’s afraid to show her emotions to me. Do you think that she also looks at me more than a Friend?

[_Maya_]

That is really hard for me to say not knowing her. She does sound like she has a hard time opening up. You might want to slow things down and see if she gets more comfortable

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you are annoying her. Give her space.

[Asker]

She asked me early this morning if what she said made me upset. And when she’s emotional she shut me out.