So do girls know what a shit test is?

[chris_987]

Apparently girls are looking for guys to be leaders over there lives so they use shit test to test whether or not a guy is capable of putting her in her place.

Like and example of it would be to be disrespectful out of the blue, or be intentionally sexual but reject his advances. In other words it's mind games.

So most guys would fail it because we are logical and we're not expecting girls to be erratic with their feelings and plus we're told that we're Equal so It would never occur to us that they are looking for leaders and protection.

But my point is do girls believe that this is a real thing because apparently a lot of guys believe it's real.

[valentina4eva]

i have nvr heard of this ‘s**t test’🤔🤔 is this even a thing irl or just sumthing online men talk about?😅

[chris_987]

I'll give you an example that happened to me, I was talking to a girl years ago and I never asked her to be my girlfriend, but I could tell that she was one of those girls that felt like she was being played. So she desided to bring up guys she was talking to, to see if I would get jealous. I see it as a shit test but she see's it as a game to see how serious I am about her.

a lot of girls do it but you don't think it's something bad so it never registers in your mind as playing games. You guys register it as " It's important for me to find out where we're at, so I'll do anything to get that information even if it's lying"

[valentina4eva]

ohhhh okie that makes sense thanks!! i had nvr heard that term before

[chris_987]

Yeah it's just a term that guys use when we see girls playing mind games for no reason. Have you ever tried to play mind games with a guy you liked?

[valentina4eva]

but idkk if i would call it “playing games” if she was just trying to find out how serious u felt about her?🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[valentina4eva]

i don’t think i play mind games but i also don’t understand how men think or all the diff terms they use now😂😂😅😅

[chris_987]

Yeah that's the difference between guys and girls.
Girls at the end of the day care about their happiness and not wasting their time so they can interpret anything as good as long as it benefits them

That's why guys struggle to understand girls. but I've lived this long and I'm just now starting to figure this out

[chris_987]

Men are pretty simple to other men. But girls don't understand men because you guys listen differently than we do

[Blueeyes81]

I had a friend who was in the early stages of a relationship when she noticed his truck was on empty. Instead of telling him to get gas before their road trip she kept quit to see how he handled it. Apparently he passed the test.

[boobliker]

it all mind games till they get to thirty then they do what is needed to keep you.

[Apple1996]

Girls do these test without even realizing it. Just part of our nature

[chris_987]

Yeah a lot of girls who answered aren't even aware this is a thing.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Guys that think like this are paranoid.

[chris_987]

So girls don't play games

[Daniela1982]

wait, what?

[chris_987]

Yeah 100% of guys believe it's a thing, but women don't believe they do it. So it's just funny how that works

[Anonymous]

Lmao