Why do girls show high interest and even ask for a guy's number and then when a guy shows his interest, she shows less interest?

Rab1901

I know this is not all girls, but this definitely happens like two nights ago at the bar with touching, laughing, verbalizing her attraction, asking for my number and talking about how we can watch fireworks together.

She might not even be less interested, but she'll appear less interested. I'm sure sometimes she actually is less interested too, but what do you all think? I'm wondering why she's not responding for hours when she suggested she'd tell me about her schedule so we can watch the fireworks. I know people get busy, but I thought we were going to figure out where and when we were going to meet to watch the fireworks tonight. I just said it's too late to plan anything now and maybe we can meet another time. Still no reply. My first message before was 7 hours ago.

I was actually thinking of not calling yesterday morning because I know some people say that it can come off as desperate, but I truly felt that I was not desperate, and I just didn't want to play any games, so I just called her, and she picked up, and we had a good convo. Did I do the right or wrong thing here? I feel like being genuine just feels the best, but sometimes the results are worse. What do you guys think? Do I have to play the game? Do girls feel more comfortable if I wait to contact them?

Why do girls show high interest and even ask for a guy's number and then when a guy shows his interest, she shows less interest?
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