Women are as visual as men, but dont admit it so they dont appear shallow. Do you agree?

Question

most women won't admit it because they dont want to appear evil.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I genuinely can't speak for every woman but for me I disagree.

I am more of a visual thinker. I see things in my head imagine things and scenarios I like to be spoken to a certain way I like to fantasize.

I am personally not a visual. I don't find looking at just any naked man arousing. It's for me too much. It's not exciting at all. I am often told how beautiful I am so I do not think it is insecurity.

I genuinely feel uncomfortable. I always look away it's not something I enjoy.

My boyfriend likes to look a lot. He loves it. He could put his face in it if I'd let him. But me I'd rather have my eyes closed and just let my self go. It's all mental.

But if it's not sexual. I do think a man can be very handsome and beautiful. But even someone who does not think he looks good.

For me if he has great hygiene/self care I find that more beautiful. U don't need to be like a model. Absolutely not. A good man with a good heart and wants to be a better person at his core that is a man I find beautiful.

Take care of yourself. Groom yourself. Love yourself.

U don't need to be a body builder. As long as u walk and healthy. Eat well. I think having self control, being loving, disciplined, a man of your word are far more beautiful qualities to me.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Women also notice men's looks lol they simply care less. Not only do we notice but we notice things down to the details that men don't. Most men can't describe things beyond very simple and broad terms that could mean anything and nothing at the same time. If I ask my boyfriend do you remember what color my outfit was on my last date he is most likely not going to answer correctly.

Get over yourselves, y'all just want to be able to ogle women and treat them like objects without any consequences so came up with this stupid phrase to convince us that you can't help it when you absolutely can and have zero excuses in 2023. We can see through it very well.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

The answer is a little deeper.

The key to answering this question is understanding that women in general have less of a sexual drive than men... (if that wasn't the case there would be fucking on every street corner).

Because of this their visual stimulation when they see a man they are attracted to is not as strong as a man's. They are stimulated to some degree, but women are more stimulated by other characteristics of men not as much about their physical appearance. This is why you see so many ugly guys with beautiful women and rarely the other way around.

Men are programmed by nature and millions of years of evolution to be stimulated by a female's looks just like many other animal species that have one sex or the other that has an adorned look to attract the opposite sex. For birds like Cardinals, for example, it is the male that has the beautiful colors to attract the females. For humans it is the female who is designed to physically attract and stimulate the male.

So the answer is no, women are not "as visual" as men.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Actually I think women are more visual than men, and in different aspects. Not only are they visual about men physically but they are also visual about their own appearance and the appearances of other women.

Women are also visual in a social sense as well. They tend to be more self-conscious in public and are often concerned with how they look in social situations, around certain people, and even depending on what somebody says to them in front of other people. This kind of paranoia is still a sense of being visual because they're worried about appearance, how they look in front of others or how they perceive something as making them look ridiculous.

hahahmm · Answer

Don't think so. A study was done where pictures of people was shown to men and women. Men always talked about how hot the women looked. Women tried to guess what job the man had and what level of income he had based on how he was dressed. Now... I'm not saying women only care about money, but it's similar - i think - to how a man thinks of a woman's breast size. with the added feature that women known a man can be a sucker/okay with giving her 10,000 times more than she gives him. So men & women don't approach life the same.

The young women on college campuses are living in an alternate reality bubble where things work differently tho. They may honestly just act like wild animals and not think about much beyond looks

Reem12345reem · Answer

most of my girl friends rejects ugly guys and whenever i send them a picture of one of my crushes (they're actually handsome but she has a different type and considers them ugly) she tells me eww he looks like a rat , find someone else , or she tells me ''let's go to this place there's a lot of handsome guys there'' , so I agree , and like I blocked 3 guys (altho i liked their personality and started a great conversation) but when they sent me a face reveal I blocked them so yeah part of it is true , but most girls would be totally fine with average looking guys , or medium ugly , the ones i blocked weren't average , but it varies from girl to girl on how much she prioritizes looks , especially now bc of Pinterest aesthetics

Pinay_ako · Answer

Why do every woman related questions imply that women are evil? 🤣 or the question askers just don’t like women in general and they always speak as if all women as one whole person who are one and the same? And they always seem to state a fact like it’s the truth… but when women make statements about men, they get mad. And they are mostly anonymous askers. What did women do to you to get you to this point?

Apple1996 · Answer

Its been proven that men and women are both equally visual. Not even sure why people think we are different in that way. I know for me I get turned on looking at someone attractive and no it doesn't come off as shallow. We all enjoy pretty things/people and there's nothing wrong with that.

Anonymous · Answer

100% not true. I know some men I consider 10/10 look wise but I would never sleep with because I don’t like their personality. Men can sleep with anything as long as it’s visually appealing which is why it’s easier for men to cheat.
And if this were true, there wouldn’t be a collective statistic that most women find more than half of men they encounter unattractive or average.
If this question were true there also wouldn’t be a collective of undesirable men on this site complaining about women not wanting them.

inhua · Answer

attraction is biological. not political

there's nothing wrong or evil about being "shallow"

lying about preferring personality first over looks doesn't make you morally superior to someone who admits the truth of preferring looks first over personality

abc3643 · Answer

No, not exactly. This is because the sensory processing in humans males and females are evolved to be different and this includes sight. For example:

BeingAManSucks · Answer

Here is my take on why some woman lie about it. These are the possible 3 reasons. I want to adress it before that caring about BOTH looks and personality does NOT make anyone shallow. How are you get sexually attracted without being attracted to someone visually? Give me a break. Also, everyone has a different taste so there's that. So the 3 reasons are:

- Mommy and daddy teached them that looks don't matter when it comes to man so the girl won't seem "shallow" if it does.

- Her parents, and/or their religion tought them that looks don't matter cause they appear "shallow" if it does.

- They lie about it cause they are afraid of society and they try to not appear as "shallow" as possible.

DermalPunch · Answer

You're conflating two things that are not part and parcel. Being visual does not automatically mean shallow or superficial.

Men are more visually inclined and are willing to overlook many red flags in a woman if she is very beautiful or if she is very sexually desirable.

Women, less.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Definitely, though they don't hide it for that reason (it's not viewed as evil), they hide it because they want sex to be something that rewards the guy, so they can manipulate the guy into giving them things in return for sex. When the reality is sex itself is rewarding to both parties involved, so its just a cover to be greedy and manipulative.

Unit1 · Answer

I'll keep this simple.

Some women love with their eyes the same way we do.

And some women "love with their eyes" but instead it's with their ears. Or their perceptions of us and how we make them feel. A whiny man that complains about women and feminism is about as attractive as "extra plus sized" single mothers are to us.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

No. Most women need an emotional commection before they can be attracted to the man. But before the emtional connection she can usually tell by features who has the possibility to become attractive

Anonymous · Answer

This is true at least in the beginning. But a woman CAN find you hideous but through your personality grow to find you attractive.

I had a woman I'd known for a while come onto me. She said "when I first met you I didn't find you attractive". So I replied, "when I first met you I didn't find you attractive either... and I still don't"! 😆😆😆

I think in her mind she thought she was paying me a compliment.😆

virtualwasp · Answer

everyone is visual, if not we could all date anyone without issue. having a type wouldn't exist.

sheikalana · Answer

I'm very very visual. Is not something I try to hide at all. I actually wish I wasn't as visual.

rachel776 · Answer

i think we're more visual in our head, we think about things and imagine things but don't act on them

KatherineJ · Answer

I notice looks, naturally. But I pay a lot more attention to things like how he is dressed, how his body language is, and how he Carrie’s himself. A guy can be really cute, but a total zero in every other facet that I notice.

kellytheman · Answer

They are visual but probably less because they have more of imagination than men in my opinion. Also I don’t really consider someone shallow if they are attracted to attractive person and women are not certainly evil.

nastyb · Answer

there is a saying "men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears"

PeteA380 · Answer

Women are married, bachelorettes (saintesses, virgins) are not. Attraction itself starts visually but goes further than that, especially to brain-bulk levels. It's all obvious stuff.

Sharkstealth · Answer

I don't believe much of anything is off limits for a woman to lie about something. There will always be a legitimate excuse as to why it's not though.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Shit, women are more vocal and physical nowadays! I've seen more ass slapping at my warehouse job in the past year (ugh) than in the past 25 at strip clubs.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

No. they aren’t even close women care more about how you make them feel than how you look

gothbxtch · Answer

no? there’s a visual component to attraction for lots of people. people like pretty people.

genericname85 · Answer

they already appear shallow enough even without admitting it xD

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Not true. Women are more attracted to personality and social status than looks. Looks never hurt, but they are nowhere near as important as they are to men.

RyanK9b · Answer

Tgey are definitely not primary visual. Its not one of the most priorities

MissBoogus · Answer

Am I supposed to feel something when I look at guys?

zero444440000 · Answer

ehh what? like am failing to understand what this post is about?

Anonymous · Answer

False. Think about it. If a woman stands naken in front of her man, he is ready to go. But women require foreplay to get in the mood.

Anonymous · Answer

True to a point, they also can overlook things that most guys can’t

MemeSupreme · Answer

sorta but it's like not in a sexual way

justabuddy · Answer

Those type of girls do exist.

Anonymous · Answer

basically yea

In_Trance · Answer

Agree

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I do

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