How do you feel about a quiet woman?

[sheikalana]

This is a question for both men and women. How do you feel about women who are put together and more on the quiet side than the rest of the crowd. I'm not saying shy. Just quiet. Only talks when she has something useful to say.

[Datboi65]

Nothing specific. A quiet woman is not always necessarily going to be someone who's insightful or thoughtful, that's a stereotype. Same can be said about a quiet man. You still have to vet them well at the end of the day like anyone else to see if they match your values and views.

I will say though that me being an introvert, I just know I won't click with someone who's loud and talkative because of how much I find them annoying. A quiet girl will be more ideal because she is more likely to give my my space when I need it. I hate clingy people who don't let others breathe without bothering them.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Datboi65 I kind of have the opposite view, though, man, tbh. I like a girl who is talkative, because she helps me to open up and talk more. And she can help carry the conversation, because that's what she does naturally. If that makes sense.

Although I do hear what you're saying.

[Datboi65]

@Jamie05rhs I don't struggle in that department. I'm what some might call "a social introvert" although it might come with limitations. The difference between me and an extrovert is that extroverts run on unlimited energy, while I have a finite supply. Call it a battery if you will, but once that battery runs over, I go into hibernation mode. A girl who talks all the time will completely use all of my energy that I would rather spend somewhere else, and doing that 24/7 is just a pain. I've never been shy, I just don't care about many people and I like to do things that aren't exhausting. If I'm in the mood to talk, I can carry the conversation even with the most talkative person, but at some point I need to go back to rest.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Datboi65 Gotcha. I understand.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

The first though is-she must have been through lot of things.

Second thought is-she is definitely not shy. Maybe I can learn something from her. Quite resourceful she may be.

Third thought i (if she is really reserved in speaking) is-i think it is better for me to leave her. Anyhow she is not talking that much. Maybe she is just not interested in talking with me. Fine then. Let's go.

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends whether she is quiet out of appreciation for others or whether she is quiet out of depression and fear. Just like shining yellow could be real gold worth thousands or fake gold made from glazed silver paint.

[WhitneySnow]

I am one lol. Compared to most of my friends at least.

[Bricealan]

We have a restaurant in Corona Del Mar... called The Quiet Woman. The figure on the door of a woman has no head! Apparently no one takes offense with that kind of implied misogynist intent, as the place is always packed on weekends... They have great food..

I personally like a talkative woman.....

[BCA6010]

There's nothing wrong with that at least until she starts expecting me to read her mind. As long as she still speaks up when she has something to say, we'd get along fine.

An effective communicator doesn't need to be loud and obnoxious.

[ohsheeT]

I like that type of women because she's usually very smart listened and learns can see and feel things deeper than most people
Usually a deeper and more passionate intense lover a kinder heart it's actually the type of girl I look for

[DerekC321]

No problem with quiet women. It's the quality of the talk and not the quantity!

[sheikalana]

I agree.

[DerekC321]

Small talk bores me to death. Much better when we can talk about something deep and meaningful that we both find important to us.

[sheikalana]

Small talk annoys me! I'd rather not talk if we're just going to talk about BS.

[DerekC321]

I like to talk about personal real-life stuff and some people find that off-putting cause they think I'm moving too fast. But what I'm really doing is just skipping the BS. Some people can't handle that.

[Jakoesu]

I say if she knows you well, then being quiet means that she trusts you and is being really peaceful with you

[EnnyT-S]

I completely get it. That's how I am. Why talk to make noise? We talk to communicate ideas. I can't talk when there's nothing to say.

[ProbablyClueless]

I've generally liked them. It feels kind of tough to try and get to know them, but they've been nice enough women to interact with.

[CaptainOverthink]

I don't mind it, really. Though it might be hard to achieve flow in a conversation, at least in the initial stages but once it's going it usually some depth to their thinking. I like conversational depth and complexity.

[Angelo75]

There are extravert people and introvert people.

As long as she's not being quiet because of some trauma or so... I'm fine with it.
In fact, since I'm an introvert person myself, I even prefer introverts over extraverts.

[PeteA380]

Women means 'already married'to me.
Regarding bachelorettes, girls: I prefer quiet and introverted (but smart) to loud and allegedly extroverted (e. g. annoying)

[JoeMichael67]

Depends on the situation, if I'm on a first date with a girl and have to do all the talking, then that can get very annoying.

[sheikalana]

I'm not saying quiet when you're together or on a date. More like when you're in a group of people.

[JesseP1nk]

I dont mind quiet woman. im introvert also. And like to talk one on one with people. My ex was also introvert :)

[BrickBiggems]

I like them a lot. Great for deep discussions and sharing your thoughts. They also make trustworthy friends and awesome partners!

[humanearth]

My daughter is a quiet one and its irritating

She is so quiet that I have to put a mirror under her nose just to make sure she is alive

[Provingdatruth]

I like quiet because it means that they are more likely to not drive their future children crazy.

[safricanluke]

Being a quiet man myself, I tend to be drawn to women who are also in the quiet side. Someone who doesn't mind just sitting in a quiet room

[worldscolide]

I married a woman like that.. What does that tell you?

[Jerre]

Being quiet doesn’t bother me. But they often get very loud when having sex.

[sheikalana]

LMAO.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nothing wrong with that.
I'm quiet, too, though (fair warning).

[Staximus]

It's fine as long as she can effectively communicate

[VforVindication]

I prefer shy, quiet women with no experience tbh.

[DreamLife7]

Sounds like someone who is insecure a seeker of validation and approval from others.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They are pretty straight forward and not high in maintenance

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh how i feel about them, it depends on why they are quiet though. id either feel relaxed and comfortable with them or feel symathetic/empathetic.

[Ciel7889]

Mysterious yet held profound insight.

[robocop666]

Hard to socialise with them. You forget they are there.

[Anonymous]

I think that is really cute and thoughtfull, sometimes you don't need to talk too much just feel each other with the soul and energy

[gothbxtch]

quiet woman good. loud woman good.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Wife material.

oh beautiful silence

[Pinay_ako]

A quiet woman is scary… beware

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know. Who is she?

[sheikalana]

Hahahaha. There's many women who are quiet.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah but, I thought you were talking about a specific one.

[sheikalana]

Not necessarily.

[Gochogirl]

Mysterious and sexy!

[EaterPeter]

Not sure. Quiet can be as bad as vocal

[sheikalana]

Really? Why so?

[DextroShade]

I prefer quiet over loud and obnoxious.

[MissBoogus]

Sounds like me

[collie22]

A Little noise is good

[Anonymous]

I feel that she's a quiet woman.

[Anonymous]

The same as quiet man, BORING

[sheikalana]

LOL.

[Guanfei]

That would match me.

[slatyb]

I married one.

[Snedger____]

Bore character

[sheikalana]

I would say mysterious.

[Simslover92]

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