So there is this girl who I’ve been friends with for a while and this summer me and her got really close and I was there through some bad times she went through and while we were hanging out I’ve noticed flirtatious behavior from her (trying to hold my hand, laying her head on my shoulder in the car, purposely brushing against me, staring at me while I’m driving). Well one day we had a conversation about how others perceived us and it ended with her saying she doesn’t want a relationship because “I’m her bro”. After that conversation I've been friendly, but fell back. Since then she’s said she wants me to have Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner with her family and yesterday in the car she randomly placed her hand on my resting arm while I was driving and she also said she wants me to come over when she’s done organizing her room. Im just confused at this point.
Yo dawg that sounds super confusing for real. That girl is sending mixed signals like crazy. On one hand she says you're just bros, but then she's always pulling those flirty moves on you? Sus AF if you ask me.
Honestly I wouldn't even stress tryna figure it out too much. Seems like either she doesn't really know what she wants yet, or maybe she's just liking the attention but ain't bout committing. Either way, you don't need that kinda mixed up drama in your life right now homie.
I'd keep it friendly casual when you're around her, but don't get too hung up. Hit up other girls too to take your mind off it feel me? And if she brings up more flirty stuff again maybe just be straight like "yo I thought we were just friends, you gotta pick one or the other." Don't let her string you along, king. You got major options out here, feel?
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She enjoys teasing you, and as long as she's able to continue doing so, she probably will.
She is probably not flirting at all. Guys often get that so horribly wrong.
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