The guy I've been talking about in my previous qs the last two months i thought maybe was on the whatsapp group and i found out last night it was definitely him, I've even checked if he was on snap but he's notπ I've not let on yet if i like him or not and i dont know if he would be inpressed or freaked outπcos we only go to the same card event and he's not mentioned the group infront of me nor anything about contact outside but its tempting π
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This comes under if it would make me look too easy aswell
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I was debating not doing it but this has since got 6 up votes for no from guys. I might send him one letting him know im hoping my flights ontime Friday as i just come home from a trip an hr before i go out what do people think? Or would this look strange y i just dont post it in the group for everyone?
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So i asked someone who saw him last week if he was single and if it would be ok to text him both answers were yes so i sent a message just saying a basic hi one... And that was Friday night.. he's not replied or not even a blue tick😭
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No, dont text him. I didn't follow your whole story but did you signal him that you are interested? If yes the ball is in his court.
Rooting for you, its sweet how you fangirl over him.
No not yet, I've not looked back at him staring as I've just been in shockπ
he's not posted in the group and he has a really old pic, hea not on any other social app as i can see so hr might not even use it
Well then its time or he may start to believe you're not interested.
Communication is a bitch
Ye im just worried i could be picking up the signals wrong and ill embarrasse myself π can i come up with a good excuse y im texting him if he asks?
Well but on the otherhand how would your parents ever recieve you, if not for one of them to have made a move despite the fear/possibility of rejection?
Mmh I don't know what a card event is but you could write him up about car sharing if he lifes reasonable close to get to the events place
Sry English is not my first language
πI would probably have welcomed it, i doubt anyone would have noticed if i wasn't here anyway. N i won't be having kids. Plus my mum might have been better off if she hadn't met my dad
i go with my mum so that wouldn't workπhe lives closer to the place.
That was just an example to help visualize it. Dont be so negative, we all leave a footprint and influence people in some form or another ;).
Ah shit then maybe wait until the event and talk with him during it. Just approach it like you would want to socialize and talk about something you have in common. Could show him that you have interest in him but doesn't necessarly mean its something romantical and could be friendship aswell
If he starts to tease or flirt for you by all means go along with it
you use too many π. it showsπ your desparation π
Looks like normal girl texting to me
who starts sentence with π lol
if she does same with him πππ, then god bless her π€§π
you're trying to hard
I've always used that smiley its just my sense of humour and thats for the knock of confidence
Thanks
I used two, u use 3
Depends bow long my msgs are in how many i use them
Update: I mean it would be clear that you are interested. What you write is unimportant
So i could just say hello and he would still know? π
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I mean its always highly suspicious if you text someone nes without a proper reason
But maybe he's dense
He was actually on holiday this week! But hey i found out a little bit more about him so all good, every little helpsπprobably just aswell he wasn't there as i was a right mess lol
Right lol
I 've never seen some women being so crazy to text a guy 🤧😂🤣
Just go slow ahead and text him, and see what happens!
Cos we don't really know each other that well and i could be misreading the signals
if you dont try you dont know, dont be desparate go slow
take it easy
Would texting himnwhen he hasn't gicen me his number directly not be seen as desperate?
If you're both part of the same WhatsApp group now, he may already have access to your number through the group's contact list.
Use Group Context - Find a Relevant Reason - Avoid revealing too much too soon π
I've tried before using g phone numbers to find people in social media and its never been possible? is it?(curious he may be able to attempt that lol)
I only tried snap and he's not on it as I said
Don't rush things; your life shouldn't revolve entirely around someone else π
Lol im paranoid cos one time before i thought people had found out stuff about me and even found me on here and all they had was a phone number n they used it to pick on me
Oh i misread ur message, nah it doesn't i went to the cinema tonight n i am super busy during the week
No I think it would be fun and sexy to receive a surprise text from a woman