Is it considered appropriate or inappropriate for a guy to inform a teenage girl about a wardrobe issue like a camel toe if he notices it?

[hamlet]

I mean, it's kind of rude to say it, but I thought a little warning should be given to the cameltoe teenager. Girls, would you feel uncomfortable if such a warning was given to you? When I empathize, I realize that this is uncomfortable :(

[silver]

It is generally considered inappropriate for a guy, or anyone, to inform a teenage girl about a wardrobe issue like a camel toe, especially if he is not a close friend or family member. Discussing someone's intimate clothing issues, no matter the gender or age, can be embarrassing and invasive, potentially leading to discomfort or humiliation. It's essential to respect personal boundaries and privacy.

If someone notices a wardrobe malfunction or issue, a more respectful approach is to discreetly inform a trusted authority figure, like a parent, teacher, or school counselor, who can address the situation appropriately without causing embarrassment. Alternatively, if the situation poses no immediate harm or discomfort, it may be best to let the person handle it themselves without drawing attention to it.

Respecting boundaries and maintaining sensitivity to others' feelings is crucial, especially when dealing with teenagers who may already be self-conscious about their appearance. Open communication and empathy are key to fostering a supportive and respectful environment for everyone.

[bingbongbangbung]

Stop plagiarizing from ChatGPT

[Anonymous]

i prefer a million times that if you notice it just DON"T Look again and NEVER give a warning, that's so uncomfortable. Most of the times i had one, i knew i had one i just didn't know how to NOT have one. I hate the way they make pants, or by pussy was just too fat i don't really know but i never even wore leggings as a teenager and always had one with my regular pants and i would notice men's eyes go there and i knew it was that! and it was so ugly to me and felts so gross but i didn't know how to find clothes that didn't show it, unless you wear skirts and dresses all the time and that was just weird because most girls wore pants or shorts in that time and still today i guess. Just better not to say anything, you're not helping, from my experience i already knew i had it and it doens't mean i wanted to show it, i always wondered how girls wore clothes without having this show, i would even try putting cut out cardboard and place it there but it would hurt to walk and then move so it didn't work. i used to think people who make pants don't know how to make pants right or i just had an abnormal body. i always hated it.

[johnnydeeeep]

Clearly most responses were impassioned and reasonably so given the topics nature in a couple of different capacities of note.
However, just as it was pointed out that the young woman is not necessarily a slut simply because the outline of her clothing accentuated her body, similarly it is clear the gentleman that posed this question for discussion did not mention his relation to the young woman, and is therefore not necessarily creepy nor inappropriate for making a comment about a topic inherently awkward to acknowledge and talk about by nature due to it's subject matter, especially given the dynamic at face value of it spoken from a grown man to a young woman (teenager).
In my mind the only circumstance that this conversation could have been appropriate is if it were his daughter.
If so you really ought chime in and acknowledge as much, otherwise there is no way around it being entirely creepy, inappropriate and borderline sexually predatory behavior. Something that if said to a young woman I knew, would have caused have caused it you substantially discomfort per what would be deemed appropriate accordingly.

[Anonymous]

Everyone finds it inappropriate... All the womens responses at the time of my posting this is unhinged lunacy.

If your intention is to help her, not hurt her, then do it. Do it with as much tact as you can muster. Make sure you apologize, even though you've done nothing wrong.

It WILL make her uncomfortable. But that can't be helped. Pointing it out to her mother, or sister would be a better option. If your with another female, that would be better then telling her directly. But when thats not available, you do what needs to be done as respectfully as you can.

It would be the same as if she wore a skirt that got stuck on her back showing off her ass, unknowingly.

If your intention is to help, its the moral thing to do.

Ignore the women posting unhinged shit, and the men who don't have the spines to do something uncomfortable for the benefit of someone else. If it's inappropriate to inform a girl, or woman, regardless of age about a catastrophic wardrobe malfunction, it's inappropriate for women to inform any man that their pants zipper is down.

[_Maya_]

I'm a little uncomfortable with how many times you use the word teenager. Does this not happen to anyone else? You seem so focused on the young girls it is creepy. Why are you looking at their crotches anyways? Now I will say that as a girl this can be avoided so pervs that would look wouldn't see anything. However wtf is it with young girls that has you concerned? How about keep your eyes off their pubic area? Yeah some girls are gonna be hoes but that doesn't mean you have to be a perv.

[Flatmanlewis]

A wardrobe malfunction is the back of her dress tucked into her panties as she’s leaving the bathroom. It’s a strip of toilet paper on her shoe heel. It’s maybe even a nipple peek over the top of a nice dress. It’s NOT camel toe, or panty line, or bra straps exposed. That’s just being a creeper. She knows how’s she’s dressed and what she’s wearing.


If anything more than TP on a shoe came up or a tucked dress I would solicit a woman to be the one to tell that poor girl about it.


Truth be told - it’s kind of creepy to even be looking for camel toe.

[ohsheeT]

Well you're asking the question so you already know the answer

When you put on your socks when you put on your shirt do you notice it

When a girl gets stressed she knows everything

I could understand it if you knew her for a long period of time then you could actually joke about it probably but

You could have said girl young woman. But you had to say young teenager I think those are one of those moments where you just kind of smile and walk by.

Kind of curious if she would have had a leaf in her hair as you're walking by would you have said anything

Or she would have had a coffee stain on her white shirt would you have said anything

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you don't inform a person about a wardrobe issue that they haven't noticed, but you have, you're kind of an asshole, because eventually others will notice, and they might make a scene of it in public and ruin that person's day or reputation.

Common courtesy people, its not that hard to wrap your head around 🙄

And to those who think noticing it means you're staring, sorry, but no, I've noticed birds flying by with food in their mouth at 40 miles per hour. Even a half of a second glimpse out of the corner of your eye while paying attention to other things, is enough to notice something like that on anyone. So keep your "creep" comments to yourself when a guy is trying to be helpful, it just makes you sound like a paranoid asshole.

[OlderAndWiser]

You could discreetly tell her that she needs to go check her appearance in a full length mirror, or if you have a female with you, suggest that your female accomplice make the suggestion to her.

I expect that some girls would get outraged if you told them, some would act like it was not a big deal, and some would appreciate the feedback and go arrange themselves in private.

[jennifer_bloom]

My old Chinese boss was a nice guy, if I messed up at work, he would talk to my dad privately to tell me at home what I did wrong cause he did not want to embarrass me at work, he had a conscience and wanted to protect me from shame. If you see a teen girl with a wardrobe malfunction, tell her mom or sister or female cousin to tell her about it when the two of them are alone and comfortable at home.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Completely inappropriate to comment on anyones body like that.

Is it appropriate for a woman to tell a random man his fly is open? Absolutely not.

I think you think you'd be doing it for her, but you're thinking only about yourself. Put yourself in her shoes, some creepy middle age stranger feels entitled to talk about her 🐈 as if he'd been staring at long enough for his opinion to matter.

[BlackBeauty90]

She's more than likely aware. Sluts know such things. Sluts purposefully make it so.

As for informing her.

It's inappropriate. Why? Because WHY are you eyeing her so much that you notice. A passing glance won't make it obvious.

[RingOfFire]

Totally INappropriate and WAY out of line. I would not be commenting on a teenage girl's crotch. First, you are not her father and second it would more than likely be very upsetting to her. If I noticed at all I would say nothing, it's not your business.

If it was my teenage daughter I might say something like I thought her outfit was too revealing and ask her to change her clothes or do something before going out. But even then I wouldn't be specific about it.

[kellytheman]

It might be a little inappropriate for one your kinda calling yourself out looking at her and she might get creeped out by you and also she probably knows and wants to show off her camel toe. Also she is a minor so it might also hit the pedophile category.

[DubiousIntentions]

It could be someone shows theirs on purpose for some weird reason, maybe getting a charge out of it. If this was so, don't give her the attention she seeks. Certain clothes are more likely to show on than others.

[rigmarole]

If it's your job then do it. So if you are their parent or something like their work supervisor or teacher pull them aside when others aren't around and let them know the problem and what is expected of them. Otherwise, stay out of it.

[kylee2437]

I would think parents would have better control over what their teen chooses to post. A teenager posting things that grown women do is the root to the problem and it comes from lack of proper parenting in their house hold

[Apple1996]

Girls have a camel toe on purpose. It's for fashion reasons

[jshm2]

Like a guy leaving his fly open, it's good etiquette to let the person know.

But it's about tact. not everyone has tact.

So it's about would you rather be told harshly, or not told but judged all night?

[PresidentLucia]

I'd say its a good thing. I've been advised before, and I appreciate it. If anything, I feel upset about the reality of the situation, but not the guy himself.

[cbaymesee]

This is creepy, you shouldn't even be looking. If it must be addressed, inform her mother or guardian and do not approach a teenage girl yourself to inform her that her camel toe is too noticeable, her cleavage is too low or her butt crack is too far out of her jeans. unless you want to be forever branded a creeper.

[slatyb]

Inappropriate. Do not do that. Why do you think that's a wardrobe issue? I thought you were I going to say something like a tag sticking out or a bit of something stuck to clothing.

[Nikki1989]

Why are you looking at teenagers?

You are disgusting.

[normalice]

No. Roosters ought not get involved in the henpecking of hens.

[provokeesmokee]

YES
Why the fuck are you even looking at a teenage girl's crotch, you sicko?

[Jdodkfndosn]

Wtf going on in your head that you concoct some weird ass question like this?

Inform her of her cameltoe? Lol...

[Longshanks1968]

Warn her about what?
If you don't like it, don't look.
Many out here think that's hot.
Worry about your own camel toe lol

[BigDog1989]

I mean, chances are she knows it's there. If you feel like you should, go ahead, but, beware of how she MAY react

[In_Trance]

Why are you looking at teenage girls pussies?

You wonder why guys get labelled as creeps?

Tfo

[justabuddy]

I did this once with a work friend and it did not go well. So I don't say anything anymore. Honestly, they can see it so they already know.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t mention it because they probably already know and would be embarrassing or rude to them to say anything

[Anonymous]

can't even see camel toe, its too bloody small,
and why would i care anyway? its her cnut on display thats her job

[MaxUsefull]

this should be alerted by the mother or a sister

[rachel776]

we would know if it's showing

[katiesmuff]

I think they would be embarrassed and weirded out

[WhitneySnow]

That would make me very uncomfortable

[zagor]

Chances are it's intentional.

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

An extension of that

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

An extension of that question would you tell a woman from teenager on up that they are leaking from having their period. I have, difficult but she said thanks

[LiamJHayden]

I would mind my own business.

[Wise4myage]

That's inappropriate.