Do you ever get the feeling girls hate poor men?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[exitseven]

I think among girls with somewhat high standards the thing to look for is if they have a job, some motivation or some other indicator that they will end up being a bum.

[abc3643]

There's a reason why guys like Trump get trophy wives and it's not their wonderful personality or tree-trunk dick.

[abc3643]

This is complete fantasyland:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBcG5tOURuM

[CoolCatMar1]

No my boyfriend right now does not have the same money he used to have and i am still with him because i don't care about money at all.

[idkkkk24]

To be honest I feel the same way about guys. Like what if he thinks I’m not good enough. So I feel you :/

[Billlewis]

Here's a quote from a woman on another thread, regarding short guys -- 'I don't hate them, I just don't date them'

[Summeroflove]

Hate no. Lol. Some women aren’t into them in a romantic or sexual way I wouldn’t call that hate. Just not attracted.



All girls are different. I think what matters most is who someone is rather then just their wallet.

[SamanthaWav]

This is exactly what I'm saying. A lot of men just have no real personality and then because they don't have the capacity for introspection they blame their lack of money. It's really silly.

[Summeroflove]

@SamanthaWav it is silly. Not everyone will be attracted to you. There is women I’m not attracted to but I don’t hate them as people.

We need to find whose right for us. We all have standards and preferences, which is why some people aren’t compatible. We are searching for something different and I do believe in soul mates.

Not all personalities match. As well as both men and women who have nothing but sex to offer. Nobody decent wants that.

[Summeroflove]

@SamanthaWav do some people look for money? Sure. If that’s what someone wants. Just be honest about it. Don’t waste someone’s time.

But obviously that’s not all women and I’ve seen men use women for money too.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Everybody looks for SOME level of money because poverty sucks. Now if you require somebody making 8 figures a year and you have a BMI of twice your age, that's a touch unrealistic, but nobody of any sane adult age is like "well all we need is love...".

Go call your bank and tell them you're paying your mortgage this month with love. Let me know when they stop laughing. You do your trade for me, electrician, carpentry, whatever, can I pay you with love? I'ma go buy some groceries with love.

@SamanthaWav nailed it. just be honest about it. be honest about how much you're looking for, and make sure you remember that you better be spending less than you're making LONG before you come to me and ask for money, because I don't reward bad spending habits with more money

[Summeroflove]

@BoopBoopBeep not everyone needs someone with money. Not everyone is the same. Yeah poverty sucks. But if all you’re looking for is someone wallet. They’re probably not my type.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@summeroflove I agree, if it is ALL they are looking for. If they're not looking for it at ALL then they woefully naive and I'm not trying to go down that road either.

[Summeroflove]

@BoopBoopBeep you have to find whose right for you. Find your soulmate. It doesn’t matter what other people are wanting

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't try to pick up a lot of women at the soup kitchen. I do think that our minimum financial situation is lower than their required one by far, but let's not act like shite spending habits is a turn-on for anyone.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, because they nearly ALWAYS go fort guys with money! Most of them are born & bred to be golddiggers!

[SamanthaWav]

Not true. Most women I know are attracted more by the attitude of the man rather than any material conditions. If the man is well off that's a bonus but its not the whole picture.

[Anonymous]

I get the feeling women hate men in general. They want them in thier life. But they're still going to judge and hate everything about them.😆

[Awesomesauce2005]

I feel like women should respect a man who is responsible with his money... Like Me! 🤪

[SamanthaWav]

I have literally never been in a relationship for the money. If a man is irresponsible that's a different story... but not everyone is poor due to irresponsibility.

[Awesomesauce2005]

@SamanthaWav this is true. But most are poor due to debt

[NathanDavis]

do you feel like one should love poverty?

[SamanthaWav]

My Master is not as well off financially as me yet I'm not in the relationship for the money...

[Ms_Facesitter]

I rarely get that feeling.

[Anonymous]

Yeah same as short men