Girls, do you like if a man wipes down your excersise equipment at the gym if the man is already wiping down his equipment he was on?

[Anonymous]

So I've been going to the gym for the past ten months and this girl is always there so she has seen me a couple hundred times now. Anyway I introduced myself a week ago and now since then we flirt once in awhile. She is heavy on the sarcasm and defintley trying to test me with how I'd respond. Anyway though as I got done with my machine she was done with hers and I began cleaning mine. Then I went over to her machine and Clea Ed the machine she got off of as she was going to get the cleaner to clean it. She said thank you.. I understand this is nice and all but do women like stuff like that? I'm a pretty muscular guy who looks tough but as she is getting to know me my personality doesn't match how big I am.. im not jerk. I'm also very attractive especially where I live. Good jaw line, lips etc. I heard a lot of women aren't into nice guys but I just am. Tbh.. I look like a good looking conceited dick if you pre judge but she is learning I'm the opposite. I'm sure she knows what I was up to when I cleaned her machine off.

[_Maya_]

Yeah I would definitely appreciate that if a guy at the gym offered or just did it. Kinda feel bad he's gotta clean up my sweat but if he is willing it is a nice gesture I suppose. I haven't had that happen to me but I have had someone chase me down because I forgot my gym towel behind. Surprised he wanted to touch that disgusting thing but still appreciated it because my dumbass would've forgot completely where I left it.

[_Maya_]

Thank you for most helpful opinion!

[noemiii]

Eh, I mean in context if you’re trying to get the specific girl’s attention it might be a kind gesture, but if the girl isn’t interested in you we honestly don’t care and honestly for me it’d be incredibly awkward. A lot of girls in the gym want to fit in with the guys so stuff like that is just kind of cringey lol.

[Asker]

That's what I mean though like I think she is into me. Everything has changed since I introduced myself. Past ten months no talking to this past week.. chatting, sarcasm, she kept asking me what I thought her name was and I said Britney and she was like Oh God no. Then the next day she said I need to learn how to pick better names. It seems like a game now. Also the fitting in.. she walks up and talks to me every once in awhile now. She never talked to any guys or literally anyone the past 10 months. I wanted to end that. I'm just trying to figure out what she is thinking. She's tricky but after this past week I'm feeling she likes me. Sure I was cleaning my machine and I might as well have done hers but no one does that. I did it to show I'm a nice guy lol. If she isn't into to me then I could understand how it would be weird. Thanks for your input!!

[Asker]

Never mind on this whole question maybe I should have waited a day. She clearly flirted with me more today. Almost followed me around the gym. So the question is answered. To the girl on here who said "that's why I only go to female gyms" good luck on finding a nice guy that offers help with that attitude. Laaater.

[SuperJJ]

Basically, I think it's great when a man tries to be polite and helpful. But I prefer to clean up my mess myself. It would be very unpleasant for me if I found out afterwards that he hadn't done it properly and I would be embarrassed to either leave it like that or perhaps offend him by cleaning again.