Have you tried to be a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

I tried and followed this woman onlines advice and it’s tiring cause you have to act like this different person. I get that it works. People are really shallow they treat you better if you look better and wear makeup and shit like that, I get it. I like that I put effort into my appearance now. However the sugar baby attitude is a bit much because it disconnects me from my heart cause I’m busy being fake. I feel like I’d rather have love with a man than just put on an act and an air to get his money. I have a soul.

I think a lot of men these days act a certain way and bold faced lie to get sex from women. So I know women aren’t the only ones being fake to get stuff from others.

[Anonymous]

That’s really interesting 😊. I’ve been suspected of being a gold digger because I’m well dressed but struggling to find work. What no one realises is my parents were quite wealthy and still are, but they’re humble, weren’t born into privilege. So I grew up privileged but went to public schools and mixed with poorer people, so I’m used to having the very best things that money can buy. I wasn’t brought up to be a snob or have airs and graces. We prefer not to talk about money. So I was hurt that people thought I was a gold digger, if I ever happened to like a wealthy man.

[Opinion Owner]

On the other hand, that’s on them. I’m fascinated and not remotely judgmental of people wanting to improve their lives. It’s easy when you have enough to judge those who haven’t.

[Billlewis]

Hey, if you've got a chance to fry yourself some pay pig bacon.
. Please feel free to do so.

[Asker]

Yeah I try not to judge I’m poor myself I know if I was REALLY down bad and had little hope I’d probably be a straight up gold digger. No judgement. But I don't know some times I hear the advice of the gold digger women online and I just feel like it’s too much acting and so on.

[Opinion Owner]

@Billlewis I have severe depression, so I can’t work long hours.

[Asker]

I feel like sometimes it turns into this thing where you lose connection to your soul because of it

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve tried to be a carer and then a nurse’s aide and it made me sick.

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve done years of work helping the poor, volunteering for the Salvation Army and riding for the disabled.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m going anonymous because I don’t want people valuing me for my background rather than myself or passing unfair judgment like you just have 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Asker? I say good for you. I don’t mean it in a patronising way. Just in a supportive way.

[Asker]

Thank you. Sorry I didn’t judge you at all sorry if it came across that way

[Opinion Owner]

No I meant the guy. You were fine 😊. I’m sorry if I seemed that way too. I very rarely judge anyone.

[Opinion Owner]

and I’m not judging anyone who needs to be better off, doing what it takes to help themselves and their loved ones.

[Asker]

Oh I think that user is just trying to propose that he wants to be used by you for his money in exchange for getting to see you have sex with your boyfriend.

[Asker]

Don’t ask how I know lol

[Opinion Owner]

Lol now I see.

[Opinion Owner]

What a perv. Lol (I mean him, of course, you’re fine).

[Asker]

Yep he tries to propose this crap to every woman on here it’s ridiculous

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed 😊

[Lisia]

I never tried to

[Asker]

That’s good. There’s a lot of online advice these days trying to tell women and girls to act that way.

[Lisia]

I'm surprised, I never heard that before 😅

[Billlewis]

I'd love to chat with you about this delightfully naughty lifestyle, if you want.

[Asker]

I ain’t gonna fuck my man on cam for other men to see though

[Billlewis]

Oh, you can be very well taken care of for a lot less than that

[Asker]

Ok like what

[NathanDavis]

nope... definitely not my thing