Why would a girl not come out and say she’s not committed?

[Anonymous]

Like when you go to her family’s around the holidays and she’s extremely quiet when people talk about marriage. She tosses around babe this and babe that but the minute you do something wrong she’s ready to break up.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that is whack behavior for sure. Some chicks just don't like having the hard conversations I guess. By not outright saying she doesn't want commitment, she gets to keep you around but still have an out whenever she wants. Kinda messed up if you ask me.

Like you go meet the fam and she doesn't shut down the marriage talk? That's sending the wrong message for sure. She should be clear with her parents where you guys are at. And then flipping out at small stuff instead of talking it through? Definitely not cool communication on her part.

I'd just be straight with her man. Say how you felt that holiday visit made things seem more serious, but her reactions say otherwise. Tell her you need better communication if you're gonna keep dating. Either she commits and acts like it, or you're out. Don't let chicks string you along like that without being honest where your heads are at. You deserve better than games, my dude!