What ever happened to meeting up with girls without them wanting something in return?

[red324]

Sent a friend request to a girl on Facebook and we chatted for a bit and I suggested we meet. She mentioned how she needed help with her cell phone bill. She's like do you think you cab help me pay my phone bill? I mean really, why not hang out first? We've never even met before and already wants money. I never really gave her a direct answer and she kept messaging trying to get an actual answer. I decided to come to my senses and blocked her. What is it with women these days? You can't ever meet someone new and see where things lead anymore. Now I'm not saying all women do this, but this isn't the first time. I bet you if we did set something up she would back out last minute and just try and get me to send money via cashapp or something. Never have I sent a random girl money and won't start now. I barely even let girls I know borrow money because they're smart enough to not even ask.

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Let's just say I go along with it and give her money. Isn't she just going to see me as an atm machine? She's just going to keep asking for other things, correct?

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... I wish I had chatted with her.. I love it when a woman asks me to pay her bills. Seriously. I know that probably sounds strange to a lot of people, but there's nothing sexier, in my opinion.

[red324]

I know guys that go to work all day everyday just so they can give away every cent to a girl that stays home with no job. Also, if they aren't just staying home doing nothing, then they're driving around going on some shopping sprea also paid for by the guy. Raise your standards man, that's why these girls do this.

[Billlewis]

That's exactly what I'm looking for.

[slatyb]

That's one person. Facebook is not a dating site. Anyway if there's no fee there will be a lot of losers and scammers. It's up to you to find the people genuinely interested in dating.

[red324]

I run into this more on dating sites than on Facebook actually lol

[slatyb]

Of course you do -- people on dating sites are more receptive to dating scams. I did most of my online dating on match, which is a pay site so the people that were on were serious about dating. The main problem with match is that they show profiles of people who are not paid members. You can contact them, but if they aren't current members they won't see your message.

[Nikki1989]

What can we say?

You know how to pick them.

[red324]

She pulled out the red flags quick though. Then she twisted it around as if I was the bad person when I declined lol

[red324]

Another girl did it the other day. Chatted for a bit then she's like I got some sexy pics if you're interested. Nope, not really 🙄 Just wants to sell me pics on only fans or whatever probably.

[KrakenAttackin]

Don't EVER pay for a woman's bills unless you are in a solid relationship with her and she reciprocates in some way.

[red324]

That's why I saw the writing on the wall and got outta that one before it even started lol