Guys, Why do you think so many women just lead men on today?

[Anonymous]

These types of women have always existed. But today the number of these women are exponentially larger. Why do you think that is?

[Anonymous]

I mean, I mostly hook up with them and leave them. That is what most guys do. So it's kind of the same thing. I don't find most women worth marrying. Most women are flakey and procrastinators who can't get anything done on their own. Do you want someone like that as the mother of your child or someone you have to trust not to divorce you and leave you in poverty, paying alimony payments?

Plus, there are technologies that allow a man to reproduce A-sexually now. Women don't need men and men don't need women anymore, so that is why people don't want to stay together anymore. You don't a random flakey procrastinating stranger that is able to ruin you financially just because they want to go "find themselves" in your life.

Sure start a family, but like I said you can do that without having sex. And you can focus more on your finances as well.

[Asker]

You kind of gave me you response to it. You didn't really answer "why" so many women are like this today.
No of course I don't want a woman like that. But I don't want to sleep with a woman who I don't love or doesn't love me either. I think that's where we differ.

[Opinion Owner]

It's because it is in our nature to, eat, be selfish, and have sex. Marriage and all these ideas of romance were never in our nature. If you look at animals they rape each other all the time. They hurt each other, they use each other, and they steal their resources and oppress each other.

Monogamy was never a thing when we were tribal creatures. And it wasn't just a man and woman raising their children. The communities would help raise the kids. You would have a godmother or godfather as well.

Just look at America culture it's very individualistic and it neglects their communities that is not in nature nor is it traditional. That is why you need community to keep people in check, but we don't have that. You make fun of a guy who is 30 and lives with his parents in America. In other countries a guy who stays with his parents, takes care of his old parents, and contributes to his community is seen as traditional and masculine.

In America a guy driving in lambo laughing at a poor struggling man wife his hot girlfriend is seen as a good thing that he is a winner. A man who doesn't get involved with raising his children just gives funds his wife to raise his kids at home is seen as traditional and that is the natural way things should be in.

I understand how you feel. But it is what it is. You just need to learn to live with it. Like you can still start a family and be a good father it's not over for you. You don't have to waste anymore time and money on women being flakey or lying and being agreeable until their true personality shows.

It's just the culture. You can try moving out the USA. Social life and dating life is better outside of the USA.