I feel bad thinking about a friend ship I had a while ago getting ruined because I was banging the girl my homie liked behind his back, she didn’t like him at all like that but he’d always vent to me about her then after I’d meet her and we’d fck… feeling guilty now
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Guys have y'all ever smashed a girl your homie had a crush on? Girls have y'all ever did that to your home girl?
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There wasn’t any smashing but I did have my best friend make out with a guy who she knew I had a crush on and it was definitely hurtful. What you did is more about morality than being wrong in general. Like if she wasn’t feeling him then it was never gonna be him no matter what, and he would’ve had to accept that. Still, the fact it was with you when you knew he liked her is what’s wrong. You could’ve picked any other woman for casual sex, didn’t have to be her of all people. In any case though what’s done is done. You can either beat yourself up about that incident every time you think about it, or take ownership of your fuck up, and do better with your friends in the future.
Going to own up and do better with my friends, the fact she don’t like him that way is why i did it… he didn’t have to cut me off like that… I use to invite him over to my place to play Xbox then when she’d finish work I’d drop him off at home and bring her over to smash.
Yeah but even though she didn’t like him, he liked her and as a friend that’s a boundary you shouldn’t have crossed. There are sooo many other women, you could chosen someone else, there’s just no excuse for that betrayal. Also no use in lamenting over it either. You take responsibility for what you did, respect his choice to cut you off because it was fair, and move on.
True just sucks because I don’t even speak with that girl anymore and I knew that guy since we were in the 5th grade 😕
I can understand that for sure, it must be rough. Still you live and you learn, I’m sure if you make another good, long term friend like him you’d know better than to do what you did. Maybe one day you and your friend can put this all behind you but only god knows.
No he’s extremely hurt he don’t even wanna look at me… last thing he message me was
“I never want to see you again you back stabbing asswhole fck her as much as you want I obviously don’t mean anything to yall” then sent a middle finger emoji
Ouch…. Well I don't know maybe in the future!
I get it, I had something like that happen to me in the past and it made me not wanna see him or her because I just felt embarrassed
In this case he’s not embarrassed but just hurt, for lack of a better word. You did something really messed up but all you can do is learn and grow from this.
Yeah I just randomly think of it, much rather would have kept the friendship, feel even more guilty because we would talk/joke about him liking her while we’d be smashing
Just gonna learn from it and hope it don’t happen to me some day, I believe in karma