Do women typically shame, gossip, scorn, humiliate men that are gay ugly and cowardly?

[Tomisworthless]

This is how all women treat me, most of the time I can tell how the interaction will go before anything. Now again im not talking about relationships just general daily interactions in the world. No guys I've ever known had women ever treat them so harshly just for being. I feel like I really hate women as in 30yrs I've yet to see one that isn't a Devil. I don't know whether it stems from being ugly gay poor pussy loser or from them treating me like im dirt to be trampled upon because of those things. Men treat you with a certain level of respect women dont. Maybe its the lack of violent response theyre used to for their actions and words

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gay ugly cowardly are just my attributes but im speaking about those deemed beneath oneself, to be sniffed or coughed at

[katiesmuff]

I do not think that is the way the majority of women or men treat people especially the ones they don't know or have had no interaction with. For the most part we don't care one way or the other about your appearance, gender choice or your manliness.

[Tomisworthless]

Of course not especially since interest isn't at play however its always fun to gossip about people you see as inferior

[Cheapskate]

I can relate to your feelings to an extent. Maybe you have experienced some trauma growing up, maybe your mom wasn't able to give you the love you needed. I don't know.

But it's clear to me from your description of yourself, from your photo, that you are being very hard on yourself and that probably this self-loathing is somehow ending up as a general mistrust of women. If you expect to be treated bad, you will NOTICE much more when you are treated bad, and you will kind of dismiss the times you are treated well. Plus you will come off as more defensive, thus increasing the odds of others being less trusting and warm towards you.

So my advice is basically to practice self-compassion and being kind to yourself. And hopefully over time that will make you feel more comfortable in your own skin and less sensitive to the judgment of others.

Good luck

[Cheapskate]

You're not worthless. You're not ugly. You're not a coward.
It sounds like you didn't get the love you needed. So you have to give yourself some love.

[Tomisworthless]

Stop lying

[Cheapskate]

What am I lying about?

[Cheapskate]

You should really get some help, bro, you seem hardcore messed up. But that doesn't make you worthless, just a man in pain.

[Tomisworthless]

2nd post is a lie we are taught by society as we develop our salt in this world.

[Cheapskate]

Yeah, but dude, that is a two way game. If you post your worst picture glaring crazily into the camera and give yourself a self-loathing username and generally put yourself down, most people are not gonna respond positively to that.

But that is superficial. The real problem seems to be that you are not being kind to yourself and others. And that eats away at your soul. Be kind to yourself. Please. You're just a human.

[Cheapskate]

The way you see yourself - others are gonna take that into account when they evaluate you. It's unfortunate, but that is how it goes. So you should focus on being kind to yourself first instead of expecting others to be.

[Cheapskate]

Basically treat yourself like you want to be treated by others.

[Tomisworthless]

This is the internet im talking about life, where i got my username as i aged throughout my 20s.

[Tomisworthless]

im kind to others its them that are not. Again you're just assuming and accusing. Im not a sexual person at all. People are, and due to this they treat you based on your sexual and datable value. This is why women are so cold, and entertain themselves at my suffering because they see me as yuck gross filth. Therefore its open season, to them im hardly human.

[Cheapskate]

But why would they give a shit either way? If you're gay, why would they care about your attractiveness to them? And why would you care about their opinion?

I can see you pic and you're not ugly, but you present yourself terribly. I mean you look scary.

I just think some woman somewhere in your past neglected you or hurt you bad and it has made you mistrustful of the entire female sex.

[Tomisworthless]

because just calling me a f***** to hurt me is fun or laughing when seeing my face or shaming me with theirs with windows at red lights or in public outings. I dont know any women or names in my life and never had the slightest of friendships with their gender. I just dont talk to them infact i try to avoid it if at all possible

[Cheapskate]

Let's say I accept your experience as real and not something partly imagined/misinterpreted on your part. I still think you could do with professional help. You don't have to suffer like this.

[Tomisworthless]

What would professional help do lmao waste time and money

[Cheapskate]

I mean, hopefully it could help break that armor you have built up against the world and help you trust again and eventually you would learn to be nice to yourself instead of putting yourself down. And you would learn to express your needs and so on. And you would start to feel more relaxed around others and comfortable in your own skin.

[Anonymous]

If a man is all those things, he ain't got a hell of a lot going for him. Yes normal woman will make him into a joke.

[Tomisworthless]

but never in my life have i pursued relationships or sex. No interest in a game i can't compete in. They like you correctly stated treat me with scorn and disdain because they view life as whether you're fuckable or boyfriend material. You dont respect something you're repulsed by

[pianogirlmeow]

I think you need to work on your self confidence. You’re saying you see their glances and hear their whispers or whatever but i guarantee you most of the things you think they’re saying or feeling it’s in your head. You already have low self esteem so thinking those things wouldn’t be uncommon. I’ve been in your shoes, i always think people hate me when in reality they just don’t i create fake narratives in their behalf. You have to learn to not overthink and not care too much about peoples opinions. Good luck!

[Tomisworthless]

Whatever you're right im delusional and psychotic too

[pianogirlmeow]

In the nicest way possible have you ever thought of therapy?

[Tomisworthless]

Nope but ever here recommends it but im not the one who needs to be corrected

[Koneko911]

Or because you're literally bad mouthing all women and acting like a typical incel or whatever. Clearly you have some deep issue that you think you being gay, poor, and pussy (your words) and ugly (again your words) that you seem to wanna push onto people. So they probably treat you accordingly because that's how you make them feel they should

[Tomisworthless]

you do realize that im 30 have experienced enough from people over the years that what you're gaslighting isn't even based in reality

[Tomisworthless]

When you're old ugly fat and undesirable you'll see then true human nature and reality of life

[Koneko911]

Well lucky for me I'm not a cry baby and know I'm sexy asf so 🤷‍♀️

[Tomisworthless]

well i am, and again, in time you'll learn right now you're in la la land

[Koneko911]

No im just not a cry baby

[Tomisworthless]

Typical trash talking female.

[Koneko911]

No you're just a cry baby and I'm not going to try and make someone who clearly wants to whine feel better. You're purposely trying to be a cry baby, it's pathetic and I don't baby idiots like that. I'm gonna tell you how the fuck you're acting

[Tomisworthless]

im not crying you people have always a shit gender. I can't cry im already dead inside you ugly cunt.

[Tomisworthless]

you literally look like a child little bitch

[Koneko911]

And you act like a child. I just look like one

[Tomisworthless]

I forgive you

[Koneko911]

Good for you. Don't know what you need to forgive me for as all I did was state you're horrible attempt at attention seeking

[Ms_Facesitter]

Not the ones I know.

[Tomisworthless]

They must be ugly then

[Ms_Facesitter]

Sorry to disappoint you, they're not ugly at all.

[Tomisworthless]

Aall pretty women are trash individuals just have them be around me for 5 secs and bring the ugly right of their hearts

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm sorry to hear that :/

[Tomisworthless]

tankx