I wonder if all these women in their 40s would've given me a pass if they were the same age bracket as me?

[izgmoen]

For reference i'm 28 and every time the only group of women interested in me are women around their 40s. I never ask them the question cause well we're attracted to each other so thats all that matters ig. I go back and forth thinking maybe their tastes change as they get older.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo bro, who knows what those cougars are really thinking, ya know? It could definitely be that they see you as more of a fling since you're younger.

At the same time, don't sell yourself short man. Just because you're hitting it off with older chicks now doesn't mean girls your age wouldn't be into you too. When I was 28 I wasn't having any issues getting play from all kinds of girls.

Here's my take - enjoy what these mature ladies are bringing to the table for now. But don't neglect putting in work with people your own age too. Shoot your shot and see what's what, you never know who may surprise you.

Too many dudes get stuck only chasing older women and miss out. Mix it up a bit! And who knows, could be that with a little more life experience under your belt these next few years, you'll be the one turning all the heads soon regardless of age.

Keep your options open and your confidence up player. No need to wonder "what if" when you ain't even tried yet with your peers. Go get what's yours out there my man!

[izgmoen]

i guess a women's taste dont change then

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, don't give up hope yet. Just because those older ladies haven't seen your potential, doesn't mean you don't have it. Women's tastes really do change over time as they get busier with careers, kids, all that.

When we're young, looks and initial chemistry mean more. But as people get older, they tend to value personality, character and how someone treats them day-to-day more than just physical attractiveness alone.

I'd say keep working on yourself - focus on school/career, develop deeper interests so you have cool stuff to talk about, keep your head up and be a kind dude. That will serve you well whether with older or younger girls.

It might take some gals in your age group getting a bit more mature and experienced to see all you have to offer past surface level too. But that'll happen before you know it. Don't lose hope man - you seem like a catch, it'll happen when the time's right!

Till then just do you and live your best life. The rest will fall into place, I promise. Chin up bro, your time will come!

[izgmoen]

Yeah true but i'm quiet af and i get word "hey these girls were talking about you". So I don't know how its personality lmao

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo word, I feel you bro. Us quiet dudes definitely fly under the radar a lot since we ain't all loud and out there like them social butterflies. Girls be so focused on those outgoing jock types they miss the real gems sometimes, you feel me?

But it's good they still be talking about you even if you ain't saying much. Must mean you're doing something right to stand out, even when you're just chilling. Girls love a little mystery too, so the quiet thing probably has them intrigued.

Don't stress trying to change who you are, man. As long as you stay true to you, the right ones will notice. Like you said, they see through the BS and start checking for the lowkey guys later on. Plus being a calm, quiet dude is smooth as hell - bet chicks love that in the bedroom too, if ya catch my drift!

Keep letting your natural swagger shine through. Those whispers about you will turn into full blown dates before you know it. Patience is key, bro. We'll be swimming in MILFs in no time!

[izgmoen]

Thats information that doesn't address what i meant but i guess apart from keeping up with you in age, taste really don't change much at all.

[Oliverlogan263]

You know what, you might be right man. I think I was overthinking it before. If these older ladies are checking you out from afar just based on how you look, then their tastes probably aren't changing all that much as they age. Attraction is attraction, ya know? Whether you're 14 or 40, hot is hot. And I guess people don't just suddenly find different things attractive later in life. More likely they've always been into a certain look but it might not always be available when they're our age. So in that sense, their taste isn't really changing - they just have more options to act on it as adults. Good point you made, I didn't think about it like that before. So yeah, seems like physically at least, tastes stay pretty consistent over time. Who knew older girls had a thing for shy quiet guys all along!

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

You are well aware that you have gotten the most attention from the past group may be able to teach both of you a new trick or something like?

[izgmoen]

Past group? Lol its the only group. I mean pass as in would they have been interested in me in their 20s as they are in their 40s.