Why doesn't a man write for a long time after a resentment?

[RahibeTeresaa]

Normally, my friend and I used to talk every hour, then we stopped talking because of my fault, because it coincided with my bad period and I was always exploding my anger towards my family and people around him, but in this last fight, he didn't take it anymore and said let's take a break from talking, so I said okay, he hasn't written for a week, how can we be the same again, or will we text again?
I don't speak much English, sorry if I made any mistakes.

[Anonymous]

Maybe I’m wrong but he might be tired of you. Men put up w a lot of things when it comes to girls. We do this because they like them, whether it’s for a legitimate relationship or just to sleep w them. So he’s “blinded” by his feelings for you whatever they may be. But once he’s passed that, those things he used to put up w he’s no longer willing to deal w. I don’t know what your friendship has been like. Maybe you’re a headache to deal w.

[nawtee_me]

Holding s resentment is like drinking a bottle of poison and hoping the other person dies from it…. It only hurts the one holding the resentment. Try writing him instead of waiting for him to write you. But you also need to work on your anger as well….

[RahibeTeresaa]

This was the comment that really motivated me, you gave me courage, thank you very much, you explained it very well, I know my mistake, I will try to fix it, I hope I succeed, wish me luck🙏

[DishLady]

Ok, so I'm just going to answer the lead question in bold because some of the description doesn't make 100% sense.

A man won't contact you properly (meaning has he used to) if he resents something that you said or did to him... OR if he has been thinking to stop talking to you and finally used this as the excuse to stop.

[MaddyJ]

It may never be the same again. Sounds like you need to apologize.

[RahibeTeresaa]

I apologized and I don't know what will happen anymore

[Lionman95]

Maybe he is either over you or he´s not over the situation yet. For him might not be long enough I don´t know. If you feel bold enough you can try to start the conversation between the two of you again and look how he reacts.

[RahibeTeresaa]

I apologized and let it flow, I'm waiting for the first step from him, even if he doesn't text me again, I won't force him.

[Lionman95]

That´s good. I don´t think there´s something else you can do. Either he comes back and you keep going as friends or he´s over your friendship.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You'll just have to give him time, although I don't think an apology should be restricted by this waiting time, after an apology then waiting is all you can really do and then if y'all speak again, don't make the same mistake.

[RahibeTeresaa]

I apologized and let it go, time will tell what will happen.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Indeed so, best of luck with that

[RahibeTeresaa]

Thank you

[RavVid]

He seems to have become exasperated. There is an English phrase - flogging a dead horse. He has decided it is not worth further effort on his part.

[ProbablyClueless]

You have to give him more time to cool off. It's possible that your friendship with him is totally done.

[Avicenna]

He might be focused on different things or have turned inward.

[Iron_Man]

You’re gonna have to learn to make compromises to work things out

[DrPepper12]

Ask him!

[In_Trance]

He's busy

[RahibeTeresaa]

We used to talk no matter how busy we were