Like, I honestly don’t mind the fact that people can basically see her butt but it is her pretending that she wears them JUST for comfort and It makes me not feel like she is trusted by not just admitting that she like it showing off her legs. I added an image and I can’t see how women feel half naked like I would feel in just tight underwear around people
Im wrong
she's dishonest
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By the way I am not closed minded I wouldn’t even mind if she was thinking of making an OF as long as we were transparent but look at girls who post pics on there *wearing the same booty shorts*
They know what guys are doing looking at those pics.
Would you let your girlfriend wear light colored short yoga shorts like Nike Pros?
So what it guys look at her. Why are you worried about what guys think?
I think you are being disingenuous. What you are worried about is her. You don't trust her. You think she is seeking male attention.
I hear the excuse from guys all the time, "Oh, I trust her, I just don't trust other guys." But what are guys going to do, go wank off? So what. Are they going to hit on her? You don't have to worry about that as long as she is loyal to you. So do you trust her or not? And why aren't you proud that guys are jealous of your hot girlfriend?
Do get uptight when she wears a bikini to go to the beach or swimming?
You thought she was hot when you met her and didn't mind the way she dressed. But now you're playing the jealous game. "I just don't want other guys looking at her."
Using your mom as an example is weird, too. You're trying to rationalize your feelings. Why do you care what people wear? How is it your business?
You should give some serious thought to your emotional reactions. Because you might wind up alienating your sweet girlfriend, the one who chose you above all others.
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Well can you answer whether you would feel comfortable with your mom wearing a micro bikini?
I don’t trust her because she’s not being honest, and you definitely know that.
Like, some girls would get upset if a girl jogs past you and she immediately looks at you to see if you’re looking at her ass - because THEY KNOW that’s the goal, and a lot of girls get mad at their boyfriend for that, do you agree? I can’t say “what? but those shorts just give her comfort-they have nothing to do with how her asscheeks look”
I am confused, you think humans enjoy attention and looking good? Again-if you saw a hot girl in a thong bikini-and she told you not to look at her ass like a perv - you’d call bs.
I see women in tiny bikinis and sexy clothes all the time. I definitely appreciate the visuals but I don't ogle or cat call or act like a perv. If I did, she would be justified in calling me a perv.
Just because a woman is wearing flattering clothes doesn't mean that she's advertising. Maybe she simply likes certain clothes.
I hate it when guys make beautiful women feel uncomfortable.
Do you act like a perv when you see a beautiful woman?
Besides, the woman is in control when she can reject a guy. Ever heard of #MeToo? Why can't you understand that?
I truly feel sorry for your girlfriend. I hope she sees through and gets away.
There is nothing perverted about appreciating the feminine form. And there is no reason why a woman should be ashamed of her looks. Are you a fucking Muslim?
Brother, do not listen to this woman. She has no rationale. You stated you don't mind your girl wearing attention getting clothing. I take a lot of selfies but I don't them. Believe me if you were a man with an amazing body and well hung and you were always wearing joggers with no underwear and a tank top your girl, and 99% of girls would say something. Women like need to stop playing.
So the first thing I would ask myself if I were you is do I wear clothes that would be considered attractive to other women?
If you dress in somewhat tight fitting clothes or you dress wanting to be attractive to other women, then she's doing the same thing as what you are doing.
As long as she's not doing it to target a certain guy and she's wears it to be comfortable and fit in with her girl-friends then you have nothing to worry about.
Just make sure your not applying a double standard here.
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I agree but my point is she acts like she doesn’t like looking sexy, like many other people do. I think she thinks I would judge her but wanting to feel sexy is normal obviously, like why do girls like showing cleavage if they don’t want it looked at?
Girls like showing cleavage because they want people to look, if they didn't they would cover up. They can say they don't want people to look but they know it's going to happen anyway.
Same goes with the tight shorts, it may show every contour of her butt and legs and yes people will look, but one can't say they aren't doing it to look sexy, because it doesn't jive. If you don't want to look sexy, there are plenty of other clothes one can wear that are comfortable and not have sex appeal.
I am not addressing the entire question here; but just the last point.
As women, from a young age, our shorts are significantly shorter than the shorts for boys of the same age. We are conditioned from a young age to be comfortable wearing short shorts.
Guys, not so much. Guy clothes cover up a lot. Look at beachwear, as an example. Women are expected to be comfortable in public in nothing more than underwear. Guys actually get to wear an article of clothing that they would wear in their everyday life.
So, as to the latter point you made; no, I (and most other women) don't feel uncomfortable wearing short shorts--a lifetime of exposure and targeted marketing designs towards us have made us pretty numb towards any feelings of being uncomfortable/awkward in that regard.
Anyways: “Would you let your girlfriend wear light colored short yoga shorts like Nike Pros?” Answer: If you could control what she wears, you wouldn’t be acting like such a control freak online. 😉
She wears what is comfortable. That is it.
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I am not telling her not to wear, I am frustrated that she is so insecure about anything regarding like wanting to be hot. Like I said, she doesn’t want to go farther than a hj - my mom lets us close the door when she is over but im just not allowed to lock it but when we open it she acts so like shy and I am worried my mom will find out and she will never want to do more, obviously she wants to at times but acts like she is nervous to say it
@JasonBD7 OH! Not allowed to lock it…. Solution: Chose a time that your mother isn’t home, lock it, and explore something more sexual. Tell her that her yoga pants turn you on and got you hot n bothered, tell her how it brings out her feminine assets. Kiss her & cuddle & try to remove her clothes, if she goes along with it then continue until you are both having sex.
As a counselor for many years, Truthfully, Women are more control freaks than men in relationships. Who you can call. What social media sites you can be on. How much time you can spend with friends and family. This goes on and on. girlfriends and wives are the ultimate do what I say and not what I do. Women admit they are wrong far less than men. There is less spotlight because they are far less aggressive and dominate when they are controlling. It is much more manipulative.
When men tend to be controlling it is more usually much more dominating, aggressive and abusive.
Finally, if you being in a committed relationship means you have to adjust, humble yourself and understand you can't live the way you used to.
Although it's pretty normal to do so nowadays, I'd prefer my partner doesn't follow societal norms and doesn't wear stuff for attention, because that kind of clothing is definitely for attention more than it is for performance as some women might argue.
I'd prefer she wore something like this
than something skintight like these
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See, the same people who pretend the second set of shorts have nothing to do with looking sexy-would absolutely feel weird letting their pre teen daughter wear to school.
Yeah exactly. It's too normalized wearing that kinda stuff these days. I'd prefer both my partner and my daughter looked dressed classy and elegantly. They can still be beautiful and get attention dressing that way.
I don't know what's up with all these guys not liking that you said "let her" because it's fine to not let your girlfriend do certain things in my opinion. She is supposed to care what you think and not just do whatever she wants. I let my girlfriend wear crop tops and stuff sometimes... but I try to get her to dress modestly a lot of the time. I would not let her wear pants like that around guys. I would not let her have any guy "friends" to drool over her ass. It's not about control it's about basic respect. She wouldn't let me go to the gym wearing tiny shorts with a dick print in front of girls staring and giggling.
Women know what they are doing. If a woman respects you and doesn’t want to risk losing you she will definitely listen to you if you say you dont like her wearing revealing clothes. Its a reasonable request, but this generation makes it sound like telling someone: “i dont like you being half naked”, as if you’re cutting them off from life itself.
in a relationship you can't do what you use to when you were single, if you dont like it then go back to being single. You won't hear complaints anymore thats for sure.
She will listen to the man she values, and it’s actually a red flag if she rejects your feelings on the matter.
Might have to work on your self confidence bro... I get where you're coming from, I do, but people are gonna look at your girlfriend regardless of what she's wearing and if she feels confident in those shorts then you'd probably do best to support her.
I personally like wearing shorts like that 'cos it makes me feel confident in my own body and yeah ngl I do appreciate the looks sometimes, but at the end of the day you've got to show that you trust her as a person and her wearing shorts doesn't make her any more or less likely to cheat.
Don't get me wrong I can understand why people might feel uncomfortable or insecure about their partner wearing revealing clothes but at the end of the day you've gotta trust them and just enjoy that they look good.
Those shorts are not light colored, they are not revealing, and my girlfriend can wear what she wants. And you are suggesting that you have magic powers to know that she is pretending that she wears them JUST for comfort?
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You are right I just chose a random pic but they are around the same look and you can’t tell me they are for comfort when she constantly pulls them down or up when they bunch up…. I just think she is slut shaming herself in a way
It is similiar to me wearing a tank top and pretending I never think about me looking buff in front of girls.
Why shouldn’t girls just wear panties since they’re comfortable? I don’t care that people look but you know that you have looked and been horny at a girl wearing this. What if your mom did?
You would let an 11 year old to wear a thong bikini? Do you really think that’s not weird as hell? So let’s just let them be naked and make everyone else uncomfortable? 🤨
these shorts are really comfortable, they are like underwear but slightly longer. partially it is showing off the butt and legs but that is mostly to show off the gym progress I make rather than to entice other guys. women show off their butts like guys show off their arms or chests or abs. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
I wear them but usually with a long t-shirt. I don't need validation from strangers on Instagram and respect my husband too much
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Okay thank you! Why would you wear a long t shirt if the idea of someone seeing your butt cheeks never even crossed girls minds? That is all I am trying to get across but maybe just can’t express my distrust of the claim that they are super revealing but feeling “hot” is part of why girls are wearing them, and people definitely wouldn’t see their mom in a thong bikini and not care that every one is looking at her while she says I never thought of that!!
They're comfortable AND she likes how she looks in them. What's the problem?
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That she is acting like she doesn’t enjoy the fact that especially guys totally talk about her ass to each other and joke about me being lucky… If she was able to even make a joke about how Michael totally fantasizes about her or anything like that Id at least know she’s being honest. Maybe I am over reacting but it’s just something that annoyed me today
It can’t be comfortable to constantly have to tug them down if you are moving because they are so tight and ride up! So I will admit that I like wearing tight t shirts that make me look buff - I WANT girls to look at me and think “nice” for a second longer than they would if I was in a hoodie. What if i pretended I never even thought about that?
I stick to the micro bikini example - your mom acting like her wearing a thong around your friends and calling you weird for being uncomfortable would be such a lie, because if your friends moms did that you KNOW you would be aroused and have to control yourself from staring.
I JUST want her to say that she feels confident and hot, but that she still wants me at the end of the day.
No one controls what their girlfriend wears. You can voice your opinion, but unless you lock her up (not realistic), she is going to wear what she wants to wear.
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You agree that she simply likes people looking at her ass and feeling sexy right? Thats my main annoyance is she pretends to never think about other guys
That’s like me pretending not to like having abs and girls looking at them, I simply don’t notice and feel attractive?
My girlfriend wear shorter than above style. I endorse and approve her to wear. My girlfriend wear. Micro booty shorts and denim shorts exposure ofher buttocks.
You’re wrong. Your girlfriend is hot. She also wants to be comfortable. Nothing wrong with that.
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keywoard ALSO wants to be comfortable. But she also likes to look hot and have both guys and girls look at her ass, yet all these liars act like that’s absolutely crazy to say
If you looked good wearing orange, would disavow orange and never wear it? When you first saw her ass, did you not want to go out with her, or did you not notice?
I didn’t mean it to sound controlling. For example my mom was at the pool a few weeks ago and commented how she would never let a girl that young who I am guessing was I don't know 12 to wear a small bikini - I imagined my moms butt completely bare at the pool and would feel super awkward because she knows my friends look a lot wouldn’t you?
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