Guys, would you allow your girlfriend to wear short shorts? If no, what's the real reason for that or is it just because you want to control her?

[Anonymous]

[Bratsondanielle]

First of all the shorts in the picture ain't that short. Secondly I think my boyfriend wouldn't give a crap under normal circumstances, but if I were going somewhat without him and he knew that'd be full of dudes, he might. I wouldn't choose to wear skimpy stuff in those situations thou because I'd know I'd get the million of guys gawking at me and also out of respect for my boyfriend so he wouldn't think anything funny was up

[Cherry234]

I wouldn't want to be with a guy who's going to tell me what to wear. If he has a problem with my fashion choices then he can just break up with me. I wouldn't say I dress overly sexual. I like short shorts and crop tops but I wouldn't wear shorts that expose my butt cheeks. Those shorts look good on you.

[Cherry234]

Oh and I like mini skirts and dresses too.

[OlderAndWiser]

I do not "allow" my girlfriend to do anything. I don't want to control her and she doesn't need my permission to be herself. If the real her isn't what I want, I'd just let her know and resume looking for someone else.

[hahahmm]

The guy who doesn't want his girlfriend to dress like an attention whore knows that if she does it's not for him but a way for her to attract a new partner.

It's not a crime for a person to set relationship boundaries. Although, he'd be wiser to wait till he finds a woman who is so into him that she voluntarily stops dressing like an attention whore. But that could only really happen once the relationship moves form casual fun into serious. Some guys are impatient. Or he could find a woman who always dresses modestly.

No, I'm not claiming that a modestly dressed woman can't be a cheating whore or that all women who dress like in the pic are. It's just the one who dresses for attention is more likely to cheat and/or dump him for male attention.

If you don't like the rules/boundaries a guy requests in a relationship you're free to leave. So I wouldn't call it 'controlling'. More like people with no backbone claim they're being controlled because they're too lazy/dumb to leave the relationship they don't like.

[Lliam]

I don't own my lady, so I wouldn't even think of forbidding her from doing what she wants. I'd definitely express my opinion and we would talk about it. If she wanted to wear short shorts on some occasion, I might agree with her reasons. I might even think it was funny for her to sachet her bouncy ass in public. I might even be proud of her. I mean, it's fine for her to be proud of her bod and comfortable in her own skin. More than likely, though, I would think it was in bad taste. It just depends on her motivation.

If she wanted to wag her ass in public for attention, I would be concerned. Is she dissatisfied with our relationship? Is she advertising? Looking for cock? If that's the case, we'd have a big, big problem because that ain't cool.

[theeliigilbert]

I don’t believe in any guy being control or demanding towards his girlfriend or wife as he might feel he’s entitled to make her do and say anything wanting her to do so. If my wife or girlfriend knew what she wanted to wear as I’ll picture she wear something looking real nice, basic and quite casual I’ll definitely approve and if I do see her wearing an outfit looking say “sexy” I’m sure it’ll probably bother me a bit know there’s men out there that act like disgusting pigs but whatever she wants to wear is up to her.

[genericname85]

i won't forbid my girlfriend anything. but i might not choose her to be my girlfriend if she dresses a certain way. we live in times of tiktok, where young girls shake their asses and tits in sexually suggestive ways while almost wearing nothing or while wearing an excuse for clothes that has no other purpose than to expose what clothes are supposed to hide from view, in order to just barely pass the nudity censorship.

so just cause it becomes acceptable in certain media outlets doesn't mean i have to accept it and it doesn't mean that i have to accept a girlfriend who dresses like this. who i am with is my choice at the end of the day, just like her clothes are her choice.

i personally find those sort of pants "ok-ish" in a party/club environment, where she's obviously trying to get laid. but not in any sort of casual public situation other than that.

[TheorionMage]

'Allow' is a POOR choice of words...
if she's mature enough to 'date' and flirt
the consequences of carnal 'allure' provides her OWN educational consequences!

The FIRST occurrence MAY be naivete; any RECURRENCE is her implicit CHOICE!
To believe OTHERWISE is Feminist self-delusion~

[Mofunfour20]

The reason is that other men will always be visually attracted. If she expects me to protect her than she will take my advice on what to wear because I'm not knocking someone out for harassing you if you ignored my advice on what to wear. Even the president has to follow protocol from the secret service for his own protection. It's that simple, risk reduction. To say Controlling is to ignore the fact that you expect him to protect you.

[TonyV]

It's not a control issue it's a jealousy issue. Any dude who don't want you to show off your but is either 1 upset other guys get to see or 2 thinks you'll get attention from other guys then leave him.

Some people have real jealousy issues, sure he is trying to control but that's not his intention, it's not fueled by a need to control a girl it's fueled by jealousy insecurity.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

A man doesn't control what the girl wears , he only wants to control the people who will hit on her and she might find someone better there are lots of option for you girls lol.

And there is possibility that someone would sway you and you would leave them

[loveslongnails]

I don't control what my girlfriend wears - she's her own woman. I've never objected to any choice she's ever made in terms of too much body exposure anyway, and she's got fabulous taste in clothes too. She's got the body to wear them, so if she feels like it, I'm not going to complain!!!

[jasco]

Inside sure do as you wish, but outside I would expect you to have some morals about yourself or at least have enough respect for me. Yes I am aware guys will stare but thats not the point. The point is are you doing/saying something that would attract them?

[Jay3344]

I guess I’m too conservative but it depends on climate for me. Hotter climates it’s more acceptable but I would say the ones in the picture are too short for out in public. My thoughts are if I can see your ass cheeks, it’s kind of too much showing. Like what would my family think? What kind of examples are we showing kids? I get that it’s personal choice but people have chosen different priorities for dress.

[AydenHazor]

Any girl I'm in any relationship with deserves the respect to choose what she wants to wear for herself. Any limiting any guy tries to put on what any girl wears shows more about his insecurities and jealous character than anything at all about the girl.

[SarcasticBrother]

When you ask this question context is everything...

If it's a girl I am just dating who care

If I care a little about here maybe

If it's serious it is important

If have a man how much attention do you really need? A man should never have to force his woman to respect herself are the relationship. Why? because it should be automatic

[Zolly99999]

I would expect my girlfriend to wear what ever she is comfortable wearing.. it's not up to me to decide what she wears...

If a guy does then he has no self esteem or confidence.. i actually like it when other guys look at my girlfriend or flirts with her because it makes me proud she is with me !

[JustiReno]

Just not in a temple if other guys look can just put my hand there. Having a girl with short shorts on and putting your hand on her ass is the equivalent of a girl holding up her LV bag to block evil stares

[Asker]

Apart from from religious place and red areas, would you allow her at?

[JustiReno]

Yea if you can imagine another girl looking at you mean and jealous and you just stick your $1000s bag up to block her face like yeah bitch look at 💵 same thing for a dude he like yeah look at my hand ya cuck

[Asker]

lol that actually made me laugh out loud, thank you.

[DanaeAdam5]

Girl but as a wlw I would let my girl wear whatever she wanted. If you can't trust your partner because of what they are wearing then your relationship is extremely weak.

[Gigi2019]

I wouldn't want a man that wears short, shorts... lol. See how that works? Total strangers don't need to see your birthmarks, stretch marks, and stripper tattooes.

[Anonymous]

It just makes us upset and Angry when other Guys Stare at our Girlfriend, It's like when a Creepy Guy starts Staring at you.

[Opinion Owner]

So, I would really just let my Girlfriend Wear what She wants really.

[Asker]

As long as she isn't accompanied by creeps?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, Exactly.

[InYourHead]

I wear short shorts. No guys are gonna tell me not to