Why did I fall in love with a woman who never loved me back?

[Anonymous]

I imagined I would find someone, and fall in love.
But ahh it was only me with all the feelings.
Whereas the girl I loved just was using me up, when I proposed, pulled out " how can you even think, someone like you with someone like me?"
Fucked up my head 😅
I was her only friend in the whole town, everyday, dinner, every walk, every park visit with me.
Daily having an interaction with me.
For 5 months straight.
Now I question myself why I fell in love where she will never?
I knew it from the very beginning but still I had some hope.

[Anonymous]

Likely she gamed you from the beginning. You weren't the first guy to fall for this, and you won't be the last. But so long as you've learned from it and know what to look for next time it DOESN'T have to happen again. Unfortunately there are a significant number of women (and growing) who are nothing but emtional vampires. They will tell you whatever they need to to keep you in orbit of them. All the while siphoning off your attention, love, and good nature.

Beware my man.

[Asker]

Agreed.
Your generation was much better 😂

[NathanDavis]

" I imagined..."


there you go...

[WhitneySnow]

Were you guys an official couple like boyfriend and girlfriend when you proposed?

[Asker]

Nope but too close.
We were so close that she wasn't afraid of holding my hand in public. But anything more than that used to make her uncomfortable.
Also she used to cry in front of me, her cat died, her parents'burden, especially her mother.
And the hate of men and marriages.

[WhitneySnow]

She doesn’t like you romantically. She’s not interested that way. That’s why she flipped out when you asked to marry her.

[Asker]

I didn't ask for marry me.
I asked her to be officially my girlfriend

[WhitneySnow]

Oh! You made it sound like you asked her to marry you.

Well, she was definitely way too harsh in her response, but at the same time she has the right not to date you if she doesn’t want to. She’s just not into you that way and she probably never was, though I do think she thought of you as a good friend.

[Asker]

But she took all the attention, love also holding hands in public felt too good.
I don't understand why?
I wish I never felt the way I feel.
Because I am sick of falling in love all alone each time.
I am dying to hear that one someone saying I love you, you are enough for me.
I am now getting to a stage where I want to die.
I am that desperate because of not getting any love.
I am 27 and never had a single relationship.
And now it feels I am not at all good.
My feelings go unanswered each time.
Do you know how hard it is to look at a good couple enjoying. I am always full of jealousy, always saying why not me and all the negativity.
I can't stand it. I tried to change and this is how life has been for me..
Never getting what I wanted.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m really sorry. I hope you find a girl who feels the same way about you as you do about her.

[Anonymous]

You can’t answer why but we will be able to?

[Asker]

The question was changed, it was how do women feel love?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for the heart the heart wants what the heart wants & sometimes the heart can’t always have what it truly desires & sometimes hearts do get broken. It’s easy to fall in love & at first some people fall in lust. You fell in love with her & she doesn’t love you back, move on bro & find someone else who will love you back.

[Nikki1989]

This was on you. Stop trying to blame others (women) for the mess you created. I know that this is a popular pastime for the anonymous trolls on here. But still... grow some balls.

[Asker]

I guess you never had to struggle with love right?
People like you mock everyone for something they don't get and blame them for not receiving it.
I guess you are just here to mock people to feel superior, to stroke your ego, or maybe
You feel great pleasure hurting someone else.
Something to inspect in yourself. Before giving out judgment.
Yes I made a mistake, but falling in love is not something someone chooses to, it just happens to someone who grows closer to someone.

[Asker]

And hope u die fucking all alone

[In_Trance]

Because you have no other options going on