To give a better idea of what I mean:
The thought of being alone on a date with a girl is scary.
The thought of kissing is scary.
The thought of a women seeing me naked is scary.
Asking the girl out is not what I fear. What I fear is if she says "yes", what's next? What am I going to say when alone together? I am uncomfortable with most aspects of life that are supposed to be everyday things.
I have very low self esteem as a result of BDD and social anxiety disorder. I feel like I am going to be alone forever as I simply don't have the social skills most people are born with.
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