Why does this guy like to piss me off??

[Anonymous]

A guy I've known for 2 years really knows how to push my buttons. He will tease me or say things he knows really make me mad. He's flirted with me a lot over the 2 years I've known him, but I'm not sure why he tries to make me mad. any advice? thanks

[MaxwellSmart]

I have the same issue with this girl. Its not that I like to make her mad but she is so stubborn its annoying. We argue all the time but at the same time we are playful with each other. I guess there's some kind of tension between us and that's why we make each other mad

[Asker]

sounds like us, yeah I think its tension, not knowinf how the other person feels, you should just ask her out!

[Anonymous]

why does he do it? for your attention, when your aggravated at some one your going to focus on them right? you also said he flirted with you? this is just another extension of that, flirting is basically giving extended attention to a person

[Asker]

thanks, I truly believe attention is why he does it,. True, I'm sure he gets a kick out of it, but when I ignore him, he comes up with conversations to talk to me, so good answer, thanks

[Opinion Owner]

thank you, mind you he wants your attention because he seems interested in you

[OnlineDatingCoach]

I can only guess at what his deal is.

But I know what your deal is - you are putting up with a guy who gets his kicks out of pissing you off.

Take your self out of the equation for a minute and plug one of your girlfriends in - what advice would you give her? Keep putting up with the weird, drama inducing behavior - or blow the guy off?

Bet I know what advice you'd give her...

Hope this helps.

[jhpua954]

It's fun. I tease girls all the time. The more they react the better.

[Anonymous]

This is an easy one

Because he CAN and because YOU let him