Do guys think weak and clumsy girls are annoying?

[xxangel1990xx]

Girls that have hardly any strength-do guys think they're faking it like certain girls do when they act stupid? Because I'm so weak-i can't lift anything, can't open bottles or get lids off anything and the slightest thing will hurt me (like walking into something). And I am really really clumsy. Is this annoying-if a guy had to open stuff all the time and if I was always hurting myself? I'm so bad that people think I'm putting it on which really gets to me. When I have a boyfriend I don't want him to think I'm doing it on purpose and I don't want it to get on his nerves.

[ILoveCefalu]

Oh gosh, I remember those days with a fondness only time and change can produce. The days when carrying a gallon of milk to the table, four feet away, took both hands. When you doubled over in pain from running into a table, or you fell on the stairs, and tumbled down in the awkwardest pose ever. I like to think those years made me resilient.

So yeah, I used to be twiggy, and I used to have near no muscle mass, and I was not the smoothest thing on my feet. For me, it was just one of those things that I grew out of gradually. It started with being able to tear open ketchup packets, open bottles, carry in the groceries, carry my laundry up the stairs, and so on.

If it doesn’t seem like time is changing too many things for you, then I would consider working out and practice lifting heavy objects.

[hsshannah96]

I’m not even faking it!!! That’s the worst part about everything. I have tripped over myself, Ran into my sofa chair while walking (this happens too much ugh), burned my finger forgetting a Pan was hot, ran my eye into a bookshelf (see pic below), trip constantly (almost) in heels (it’s worse than in normal shoes or barefoot), run into my bed when going to bed or walking near it, tripped over carpet and I can’t open a tomato sauce container. I typically say a small “oops” with a slight giggle because I know I look silly and move on. Goodness it’s even worse when I’m drunk. I am not dangerous to others though :) just myself.

[hsshannah96]

But this happens about once every couple weeks. This isn’t an all the time thing

[TimothyMarton]

Some people like it some people don't ... in my case I don't mind actually the way I look at it is I saw here someone said they like weak girls cause then they can be more protective

um ... I feel that's really demeaning feeling comfortable with yourself cause someone lacks somthing you have

The way I see it I think you can get over this and you might be bored of it then sorry XD don't give yourself into it don't think less of yourself for it its all a matter of confidence and belive me there's a roght guy for everyone and he probably won't mind.

I myself look at it as I commit to a relationship through anything. You might have to wait a bit but in the end its worth it :D

Good luck :D

[WeaponZero]

I know there are lots of guys who would be into a girl like you but unfortunately not one of them. The thing is, a lot of guys probably thinks its "cute" and I'll bet that annoys you.

I stutter, and it really bugs me that I do, but I get a lot of comments about it from girls saying its "cute". I suppose I could take it as a compliment but it really bugs me. I mean here is this thing about myself that is in no way good and I'm struggling to change and out of all of the things a girl could compliment about me its that? I hate that! And I'm guessing you feel the same way about guys who compliment your weakness and clumsiness.

[xxangel1990xx]

Yeh it makes me feel like a kid and it's really patronizing (even though they don't mean to be). It's not just guys though-even my closest girl friends will say aww and they're always saying I'm cute when I do something and sometimes the way they act, it's like they think I can't do anything for myself.

[valentin87]

you say you go to the gym, but you can't even open a bottle? hmm... strange. ok, I really like physically weak girls, because it makes me want to "protect" them even more and it's a turn on, but if my girlfriend asked me to open stuff all the time it would be very very annoying. I mean... it should be no problem to open a bottle/lift a newspaper lol (no matter how weak you are).

[xxangel1990xx]

Yes I work out all the time but I am so weak it's untrue. I can lift a newspaper lol. And opening bottles is really hard-it's like they glue the bloody top on!!! lol.

[regular-guy]

I prefer a competent, confident woman. Yes, I would think this was needy, annoying, or just not admirable. Sorry the answer was not very complimentary or reassuring.

[xxangel1990xx]

Its ok, thanks for your honesty :)

[Anonymous]

In an extreme case like yours I think it could be pretty annoying unfortunately. Though, there are guys out there who like girls like you, so I wouldn't worry.

[xxangel1990xx]

Thankyou, lol it is quite extreme (especially the clumsiness) I can't go 1 day without walking into something. It annoys me so I understand it could be annoying for someone else.

[hsshannah96]

My clumsiness is occasional. Not like yours tho

[vlad360]

I'm not gonna lie it's annoying. but it's not like you can help it.

[20Questions]

I prefer weak girls to strong girls.

[bunny420]

Fun to knock over.

[hsshannah96]

Waaaaah nooooo. Hahaha