What makes shy or introverted quirky girls attractive?

[Anonymous]

what makes shy or introverted quirky girls attractive?

[TheDigitalSaint]

I think all humans like a little bit of mystery.

If a guy is confident enough to ask out a shy girl, sometimes he has to really stick with it before he gets a "yes". Shy girls often come off as "bitchy" or "cold". Their body language or mood can appear cold to a man, and sometimes guys misread this as the girls just being a pain in the rear, when are just genuinely overwhelmed when an outgoing man steps into their life and initiates. They can appreciate it and be simultaneously stressed at the same time, depending on their level of shyness.

The benefits of being with a shy girl is that they tend to be very trusting once they really open up to you. Often times, guys don't reach that stage, only because they give up first. Shy girls sometimes have dark pasts and are introverted because of them. Not all of them are, but some do. They really are searching for someone to open up to, but a little voice inside of them says "do it only with the right person!".

If you do gain the confidence of a shy girl, they often can be very loyal. That's not to say outgoing girls are more flirtatious or likely to cheat, it is just that they are more likely to interact with more guys in general. That means you don't have to worry so much about competition once you've won over the shy girl.

Most of the girls that I've dated have been more shy by nature. There's something really warming about finding a girl that doesn't talk a lot to just anyone, but lets you come into her world and she submits to your strength and confides in you. That's a privilege that only a patient man gets to enjoy.

[Moloch]

I agree, same with shy men.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Yes, shy guys don't always get a lot of love, but are deserving of it too. Being shy isn't an easy thing to be in the dating realm.

[This_is_a_complement]

Wow, this is impressively accurate.

[TheDigitalSaint]

I've dated a lot of shy girls. They aren't so impossible to understand, but you have to be a strong man for them. Few men get to see the shy girl in such a vulnerable state. A lot of them are just begging to have someone talk to them and get to know them better. Once they get past that stage, the introverted girl can make an excellent long-term girlfriend. She was just looking for the right man all along, nothing more, nothing less.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Thanks for the BA. QA: Add me as a friend (if you haven't done so already) and let me know if you'd like any further insight on shy girls and my thoughts on them. See you around.

[TexanVaquero]

You nailed it, man. Right on the head. I don't know when this post was made, but a shy crush of mine has gone from cold, to nervous, to warming up to me and revealing personal information within 2 months. I could tell she didn't think I would stick around at first, but she gives me undivided attention now when I'm in her presence.

[drummerdude25]

What makes them attractive? Well, if they look good obviously... and if she's a little quirky, she can't be annoying. And just because a girl is shy doesn't mean she can't be funny and cool...

[BCRanger10]

I don't know, honestly. It's hard to explain. I just have a soft spot for them :)

[Moloch]

Nice body and pretty face.

[bazidas97]

She is usually a tiger in bed