What should I do if my girlfriend ditched me to go to a party and got drunk?

[Anonymous]

Ok is it just me who thinks this is messed up or not? A girlfriend and boyfriend makes plans to hang out. boyfriend shows up and there's no one there. so he tries to get a hold of the girlfriend and no one answers ALL he gets back is one text saying how drunk his girlfriend is at this party... What would you do in this situation if you were in the boys shoes?

[Darkfairie17]

Yea, I would be pretty upset. She seems kind of immature if that is what she does. If I make plans with my boyfriend I would make sure I stuck to those plans unless some type of emergency came up. Then I would let him know as soon as possible and plan to see each other on another day.

I think your girlfriend was being a bit selfish, she could have at least told you where she was going and that you weren't hanging out today.

Personally if someone did this to me, I would seriously reconsider the relationship. She isn't making you a priority and sounds like she prefers to just party and get drunk, rather than have a boyfriend. I don't think she really appreciates you. I know I would never do that to my boyfriend, I cherish all the time we get to spend together.

[scnbabe89]

Its not just you I would be pissed off. I may talk to her and give her one more chance or I would just break it off because she is putting you as a option not a priority. I mean if she wanted to go out she should have just told him not avoided him that's the worst part to me. She's just not worth his time.