Is it normal to fantasize about beating up someone?

[Anonymous]

Is one girl ( my relative) who I really hate, she is sometimes rude , looks down on me and she obviously thinks she's better than me - because is rich , more pretty , has better grades, more friends...

Sometimes when we meet I fantasize about beating her up, cutting her hair, forcing to eat awful things and like this...

it really makes me feel better . But then I wonder if it's normal? if other people do it too, or I am just bad and should stop it?

[Nasser2]

No ,your not bad, maybe just a little crazy though . My friend ,you are experiencing jealousy. it's okay everyone does. it's a normal thing. its a good thing this girl is rich , pretty , has better grades, and has lots of friends. She's your relative, that means you have good genetics. you should be bragging about her , but it is always okay to think dangerously, then actually doing it physically.

[Asker]

But I don't like bragging about her, everyone in my family do it, my grandparents say me sometimes that I should " take a leaf out of her book", and it's really annoying me that I'm always this worse one. Thank you for answer;) I wouldn't do it physicaly, but this thoughts just comes to my mind..

[Nasser2]

no problem :) but by having this conversation I can tell your kinda young, but in the future these feelings,and emotions about your relative will fade away :) meanwhile, I adjusted you step up your a and b game and try to beat her in something

[Shpongolia]

Yeah it's normal. It doesn't make you a horrible person. The thought police don't exist (yet) so you've got nothing to worry about as they are only thoughts. Hate is a normal emotion and those who think otherwise are naive and haven't had normal interactions with people. Just do what you can to avoid her and keep yourself stable.

[Anonymous]

my brother was a d***head when he was a teenager, we used to argue and he would get violent, so seeing as I couldn't beat him up physically, just did it in my head. Didn't solve the problem but made me feel a little better.

[jacquesvol]

No, it isn't normal to fantasize about beating up someone.

[Asker]

but I'm only human..