myTakes: Girl's Behavior

Rather often I am asked whether the grief remains as intense as when I wrote. The answer is, No. The wound is no longer raw. But it has not disappeared. That is as it should be. If he was worth loving, he is worth...

I was working on a hefty take last week that I was intending to be a hard-hitting topic that would get the discussion going … and I accidentally xed it out, declined to save it because I thought it was another document...

If you're a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, your confidence level will project itself off to the opposite sex. You will do things, sometimes without realizing that it will drive men absolutely wild! 1. Swaying...

"Oh my god, blue eyeshadow? Really?" "Ugh, she is wearing waaaaaay too much perfume." "My god his voice is so annoying!" "She should really learn to use a brush." "He stinks, ew ew ew ew!" "Someone could have...

We've all been there. We can have a great day and something may happen and we fall into the abyss of depression. As a person who's been to the pits of depression at a younger age, I learnt to control it now that I'm older...

How often do you smile? Do you have a reason to? Do you enjoy smiling? Well, I'm going to share with you some of the benefits and reasons why you should smile! 1. It's contagious! I don't know about you, but when I see...

1. Set a goal and visualize it down to the smallest detail Meditate on the outcome you want. See it, feel it and hear the sounds that accompany the end result. Athletes use this technique before a game (or race), they...

Smile. It pisses people off when they are trying to make you angry. Be straight forward and direct. Tell them you think they are a b*tch or whatever no point in sugar coating it. Maybe if enough people say so they will...

I just shared a myTake about being the second option . In said myTake I described my experiences as the second option more often than not. Now here is a new take with some nice news from the day. I met a guy who...

Now I know what you’re thinking: Blah, blah, blah RJ, we’ve heard a hundred people by now tell us to “just not give a fuck” but it isn’t that easy, okay? We’re human, we care about shit, not all of us are sociopaths....

I was caught walking through the fire. He tried to save me. Don’t come any closer. Just let me be. I’ve been burned a thousand times and I don’t even know what heat is anymore. I thrive here, it doesn’t hurt. It’s far...

This all started years ago with Tiger Woods. I was visiting my friend and we were talking about the then alleged affairs Woods had with dozens of women meanwhile his wife and children were presumably elsewhere. I told my...

I know there are still some women out there who respect themselves out there, but more often than not I see a lot of shameful things coming from our gender. Women today truly lack dignity, morals, and class. I just do not...

What type of man do I think most women want? Is it the man that is "too nice" or is it the man that is "too bad"? Does a woman have to choose one or the other? Isn't there such a thing, as a man who is well-balanced ?...

I've noticed that is common to see people living in cages nowadays; we are scared of flying. We are forgetting how to live. Sometimes we just survive and thats not the point. I don't know what are your thoughts about...

Everyone has felt like the second choice. Whether in a family situation, love, work or friendship. People tend to think that being the second choice is not a problem...until they experience it themselves. Also, they give...